It is funny how we get sucked into the day-to-day activities where we lose sense of the bigger picture. When we look back, the things that troubled us makes no sense at all. I have noticed this in my own experience that when you look at things from an outsider's perspective, many problems become clear and you can actually gauge the progress you've made. It becomes essential to take a break and pace yourself. Convey our best wishes to your niece and looks like she has got just the right person to guide her through.