Understanding the reasons why people desire success but still fail
While we like to apportion blames to others for the mistakes that we make, it is necessary that we understand that most of those mistakes occur as a result of the decision we make, no one should really be blamed for the path we decide to tread.
When it comes to the subject matter ‘money’, everyone in their lifetime wants to have money and record a certain amount of financial liberty even if the desires of people vary greatly, it is important to understand how much people desire to have money, but the fact that people have the desire to have money has not made them become rich people, they keep struggling with difficulties and financial hardship, despite the desire to make money there must be something that has kept people poor, we should find out together.
Reasons why people fail despite the desire for success.
FEAR.
Fear is the major reason why a lot of people continue to fail in life and business, a lot of great business ideas has failed just because the pioneers of the ideas are scared that the idea might fail before it even starts. Living every day is a big risk, if one must fulfil the desire to achieve success, then he must be ready to take the risk associated with it, no amount of success can be guaranteed if risk is not involved. Fear can only be overcome with the fear of what may possibly become a future regret, for instance, the fear of a future regret of idleness should be used to combat the fear of taking risk at the moment.
HANGING AROUND BAD FRIENDS.
Having close friends who are the exact opposite of what you desire or want to achieve in life means you are a serious joke or probably not certain yourself. One very common reason why we have a high recorded level of failure is because of the people we choose to surround ourselves with, if we choose friends who have no plan, then we should definitely expect to turn out as someone who will wake up every day and live life the way it comes. A decision to get the right people around us is taking a step closer to achieving the success we want in life and business.
FUN.
The excuse of living a good life usually make people waste their entire life having fun and before they realize what is going on, they no longer have age on their side. I clearly understand how necessary it is to spend time with friends sometimes but it boils down to having good friends, if your friends are ambitious people your fun time will be spent on discussing how you can move forward.
Very good advice about all the last, some ambitious friends are very productive, mine are not I need other friends XD
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Fear, a very particular emotion, and one that certainly ruins many lives, very few people make the decision to take risks in life, they always bet on safety, but if we don't take risks we will always stay in the same place, we will never move forward. On the other hand, with respect to the people around us, it is true, the ideal would be to surround ourselves with people who have our same vision, otherwise it is possible to let ourselves be corrupted, although it is not a rule either, we can have friendships totally different from us and with other priorities, but there is also the possibility of being faithful to our objectives.
Fear creates stagnancy my friend, it keeps up at a point until we learn to break free from it, thanks for commenting.
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TrufflePigFun for me is disturbing activities with no value like having fun playing game. I ofteh have done this and regret after that. I played games for hours meanwhile I have a target to write an article. I felt tired and saw nothing I have done. So I need to play games but I need to write an article. I think I have to split the session to write and to play.
We should focus more time on activities that will bring in better returns, it is not bad to play games but it is necessary to know when to cut the game off.
Negative friends are time wasters, they take away without adding anything at all into a parson's life. I had a few of them but I quickly discarded them before they ruin me.
Hello friend @ben-edom, this is a great reflection.
Truly, fear, bad company and excessive parties are ingredients for failure, it is necessary to reflect on these things if we want to enjoy a decent position in the future.
Thanks for sharing!
Hmm... These are indeed important factors that could actually hinder or obstruct one from getting successful. I really agree with your point number one and two which has to do with fear and hanging out with the wrong or bad friends.
Fear itself is a great hindrance to success because it reduces your level of self confidence and self esteem making you feel you can't do great things even when they seem to be small while hanging out with the wrong friends or people will actually make you think like your dear friends most especially if they are also failures.
Thanks for Thanks for sharing this great post with love from @hardaeborla and I hope you have a great day ahead
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