@hopehuggs I understand you and the stranger! In today's days, I witness so many mothers, and fathers as well, with their head down while the children roam free... no harm on that I reckon, but everything that is too much might hurt. In your case, was a few click action and you know your kids, they would scream out loud if anything happened :) mines are like that as well.
We need to give a certain freedom to our children and I think that the stranger was like me, witnessed so many parents just plain ignoring their children to get that 'me time' that he needed to comment on your action.
I'm all too aware it only takes a moment for something bad to happen, probably why it touched a raw nerve.