Cult of Personality

in #life7 years ago (edited)

Charisma is Lightning in a Bottle!
As a completely biased "Observer" I see who rises and who stagnates. I'm not just talking about money, because guilds, bots and alliances skew what is ultimately either an acceptance or rejection within the platform.
I compiled a very simple list of a few elements I see within some Steemians who tend to stick out from the information tidal wave.

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One: Sense of Humor! I have seen people lose their shit when a post that took 8 hours to make and is quite well crafted just flop and die. Now there are a lot who enjoy reading thousands of pages of tedious analysis of certain subjects but for the vast majority....not so much. Maybe a couple light hearted or funny "breaks" in a work will make it less robotic.
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Two: Image may NOT be everything
For a chosen few, carefully placed hair and perfect angles and selfies work but for most it screams, "trying too hard" and seeing that there are many smarty pants on here it just gets buried in the avalanche of the New section.
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Three: K.I.S.S. Some posts I click on are so complex and Term Paper like that I just skip them altogether. Keep It Simple Stupid
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Four: Chutzpah! I see those personality types with some Cajones tend to shine a bit more due to taking a stance and getting to the heart of the matter. They cut to the chase and seem to be no bullshit types and also some colorful language and wordsmithery adds to their personal flavor.
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Five: Steemit Swag $ ...You can not buy or normally duplicate real charisma or swagger. It is one of those intangibles that people either have or don't. If you do have it and own it then even a post about the price of tea in China can be worth reading. If you don't have it then finding the niches you do excel in is much more palatable then attempting to overreach and winding up trying to cater to everybody elses opinion of how you should create content on here. Do what you want and realize that you can't make everyone happy.
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The End. That is my imperfect post of some observations of how some can at least hold their own on here while others get steeeeemrolled by the simple fact that their personality (or lack of) is not working for them. Good Luck and may your inner Rock Star shine through!

xoxo,
b.a.
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I hangout on Discord A LOT, username is battleaxe as well

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Theseis are great and useful observations you point out here to new and even older users here on this platform. i hope they read , stand back and hear the wisdom in your words and we can see truly this platfrom burn with each and every user finding their place in this Ocean of thought and lives ) @battleaxe , worry not,you are a rock star and you definately rock ! SteemOn Sister !

You have been since day one a steadfast friend and I feel like we're on the same pirate ship navigating rather choppy waters at times but holding our own!

Too right Me Hearty @battleaxe )) we are shipmates sure, as you see and say ! But thanks for stating it, as its always good to hear !! Why dont we go go down below and celebrate with a bottlette of Rum? Oh ! and bring that fucking parrot , he can have a shot too )))

gotta upvote the fact you leave great commentary as well as content .....psst (it's the fact you said you'll bring that fucking parrot!) lol :P

Like that time I told you bababhubibaboo! That was funny. I think. Even though I'm not sure it ever happen.

"Aaaah! What am I going to do." That's one of the thing you said in the video you send me the other day. It was funny. It still "haunt" me to this day!

Charisma in a bottle huh! I like that!

Maybe, MAYBE I'll attempt vlogging, I think am like an awkward human fidget spinner on video, lol
Glad you liked that line, yes charisma in a bottle, hurrah

I wasn't saying this to try to tempt you. Just keep sending me your private vlog though.

Yeah Charisma is lightning in a bottle. I modified it a bit in the heat of the excitement.

I saw what you did there with the upvote.

you were supposed to
I only did that one awkward one and delete it, was me talking of hurricanes and twisting my hair, it sucked, lol

oh yeah, I hit 63 rep finally! yayyyyy

Well I enjoyed it very much. We can't see ourselves as other see us.

Awesome, great advice Axe!!

New word, axevice

love it, I am full of vice and solicited advice
if I use that in a post I'll tag/credit you

Your posts are everything ! Had to resteem and upvoted.

Well said. Just a little note on the issue of 'Charisma is a have or have not'. This is true but i l also believe that working really hard on what you do and putting much effort can replace charisma, and still get the job done.

totally true, everyone has a different spice of life ;)

Offcourse. Good one

Excellent Points Hon !!!! Birds of a Feather !!! What WE do ! ftw

I do what I can to support my friends and content IMHO is worth my time ..Period, I don't upvote anything i don't like

Amen Brother

It's all fun and games until you get slapped by a girl named battleaxe. Just saying.😅

hardy har harrrrr
(Pirate noise)
and just say no to violence, for real <3

sound of running away

Keep it simple stupid. Hard to make my way through some of the over written posts on here. Great advice. To the point. My inner rock star usually comes out when the radio is on! Lol 🐓🐓

I am super happy am not the only one who thinks some things are over written as well. I mean to each their own but when it makes me have flash backs to having to write a Thesis., moving on, lol

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