The Key to Better Relationships - Communication

Communication: The Key To Better Relationships - What is it really? When I was growing up, my father used to say that "relationships are a train, not a train ride" and I never understood what he meant by that until much later in life when he was very ill and we had to make many personal decisions together as his primary care giver. Many of those decisions related to his health and I can understand now how communication can be a key element to better relationships.

Most of us feel that we know how to make a better relationship and that maybe one day we will have a better relationship. But what do we actually do when we get there and what are some of the things we do? Some of us take our friends for granted, others depend on them too much and others are happy to be around them, but how does one maintain a good relationship with a friend? Well, I think one of the keys to better relationships is having good friends and even better friends can help you create better relationships.

A better relationship is a two way street. So both you and your partner need to be available to each other. Communication is the key to better friendships and I think that in general when you have good friends, you tend to be a lot more open to having communication with your partner and that allows you both to share your thoughts and ideas. As friends, we also share our worries and successes as well and this makes us better prepared for the relationship.

If you have a good communication with your partner, you are both less likely to argue about things, which means you will both be happier in the long run. It is a win situation for everyone. I know some couples that seem to struggle through their relationship and then finally reach a point where they both realize that a better relationship is what they need to stay together. Communication is the key to a better relationship and it may not be obvious at first, but once you realize it, you will feel better for having made the effort.

So how do we improve communication in a relationship? I believe that you should begin by being upfront with your partner about what you want and expect. For example, if you are unhappy with something, tell them. If you don't like certain things about them, then don't be afraid to say them. Also be careful not to criticize them too much or else you may come across as angry. Everyone has had that experience and it can affect the relationship in a negative way.

In conclusion, communication is the key to better relationships and it will allow us to grow and learn without worrying about always being right. It doesn't matter who you are talking to or how you are talking to them. What matters most is that you are open, honest and transparent with them and that they can understand you and the issues you are dealing with. You will be surprised to see just how much better the relationship can be when you are open and honest and you give them the room they need to voice their opinions and understand what is happening. That is all communication really is: giving people the room they need to talk.