MY FAMILY, MY FEMALE CHILDREN

in #women6 years ago

women and our society

Have you ever met a family complaining bitterly about them giving birth to female children alone?

Have you seen a woman brutally abused and thrown away just because she gave birth to female children alone?

Have you come across a family that could barely eat a square-meal but are ready to go polygamous just because they have only female children?
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Welcome to my blog great steemian, we love women and love talking about them, this is why I am in steemit community, to advocate for women until humanity comes back to their full senses about the wonderful and adorable creature called woman.

It's a question that ceaselessly leaps my mind; why is it that many people till date find it difficult to understand life?

A female child should be seen as the most precious gift of God through nature but unfortunately to some, the reverse seems to be the case, more especially in some cultures of the world where female children are regarded as secondclass human beings, wives are abused for giving birth to female children and those female children are denied their rights to life, rights to choice and right to education.

Stop the abuse and see the true light!

I was moved to put up these post for enlightenment and for encouragement; for enlightenment to those who still unable to see the inestimable value of a female child, and as encouragement to people who already had already stood their ground to make life worth living for women and female children.

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There is no deficiency in a woman child as it relates to life's purpose, a child is born for or to retain procreation sustaining human existence on earth , for happiness and for the wellbeing of a society, so if you follow life in this light, you'll only but to find out that female children are as good and equal to male children.

Taking it from there effects on our society, women are said to be more intelligent than men when it comes to the real issues of life.

Women are the backbone of every society, that's why everyone have need for a woman in their individual lives, even hardened criminals could be addressed by women in their lives.

All over the world, we have countless of virtuous women who have impacted our world positively, from families to business, and up to government.

So in that light, I've done some research on few of great womem of our time as it relates to entrepreneurship and business.

Today I decided to pick just one from West African Country but maybe in my next post I may continue to show us many others around the world.

**NIGERIA-West Africa **

Hajia Bola Shagaya

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Hajia Bola Shagaya (born October 10, 1959) is a Nigerian businesswoman and fashion enthusiast. She is one of the richest women in Africa.

Early Life & Family

Hajia Bola Shagaya (MON) was born on 10 October 1959. She is married to Alhaji Shagaya, a Kwara State-based transport mogul, and has four children. She had her secondary school education at Queens School, Ilorin, and her tertiary education at Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria and Armstrong College in California, where she studied economics and accountancy.

Career

She started her career with the audit department of the Central Bank of Nigeria before venturing into commercial activities in 1983. Her business experience started with the importation and distribution of photographic materials and she introduced the Konica brand of photographic materials into the Nigerian market and West Africa.

Hajia Bola Shagaya is also the managing director of Practoil Limited, one of the largest importers and distributors of base oil in Nigeria, serving local lubricant blending plants. Her businesses also includes huge investment in real estate, spanning across major cities in the country with over three hundred employees.

She is currently on the board of Unity Bank plc (formerly Intercity Bank) and has been for over eight years. She is also a member of the recently inaugurated Nepad Business Group – Nigeria. Hajia Bola Shagaya is a patron of the Fashion Designers Association of Nigeria (FADAN), and a fashion and art enthusiast who supports and encourages the fashion and art industry. She also loves sports, especially polo. On 22 July 2010, she was awarded by the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan (GCFR), the title of Member of the Order of the Niger (MON).


The biography above were sourced from: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bola_Shagaya?wprov=sfti1
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**IN CONCLUSION **

Respect any woman around you at all times,

If you're a parent reading this article, take care of your female children because they'll be the ones to remember you most at that critical time of your life.

For our men

Never raise your hands again those angels around you.

**WE ARE WOMEN AND WE WERE CREATED FOR LOVE AND NOT FOR HATE AND ABUSE!

Thanks for reading, I'm still your friend Petlove @korghawk.

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Yah women are special. For me has a man i think i will do a good job in remembering my parents critical moment.
If you see a married man who ignores his parents in their critical time, his wife always has something to do with it.

You're right brother, I am a man and I'm right now with my sick old mother together with my family, my wife has been supportive and we're happy taking care of her.
Yes indeed some women (wives) are the reason why their husbands do neglect their aged parents because some women (wives) are rather selfish to think that their aged father and mother Inlaws are burden and discomforting to them.

Am telling you my friend. Am saying this because of what i have seen with a woman who married into our family so am speaking from experience.

Your wife is just a gift from God, that just the perfect word for her. My regards to her and may your mother get well soon.

Thanks brother, fortunately enough, she(my lovely wife) was the one that put up this wonderful post.

Thank you for the good wishes, hope everyone could be lucky and blessed as I am, yes my mother's health is improving as she is actively responding to treatment as well as she is undergoing the situation in good fate.

Ok good to here your mother's health is improving. But Wow your wife @devalve? Thank God i did not make any harsh comment. Hahahaha. peace to you both.

Thank you a lot for bringing in your own view and contribution, I really appreciate your comment, please as you said; take good care of your family more especially women in the family.

Ok. peace to you.

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wat a man can do, a woman can do better...thanks for sharing

Hello @adabless, thank you for your support in what we're doing especially as it concerns women and children.

you are welcome...i am always ready to fight for women

Thanks for sharing this post @korghawk, we all know that women are the salt of the world. God knows why He created them.

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