Get ride of Mr right syndrome

in #wafrica5 years ago (edited)

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This is a continuation of my other post, you can read about it [here]

If you want your relationship to work out, you need to get this sink into your head that you cannot be always right. You need to admit your fault when you are faulty and learn to say sorry even when it is obvious that you are very right. Until you approach your relationship with this mentality, you will always find your relationship not working out for you as planned.

One thing that is certain in life is that the two of you involved in a relationship cannot be at fault at the same time you are right. Learning to give it whatever it takes is the only secret weapon that makes things to work. And the only magic is to keep saying sorry even when you are not the one at fault.

remember that their is no reaction without an action. Every action have a tendency of provoking a reaction.

My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, I tried to come between them to see if I can get it solved before it becomes what it is now, but the two of them are not ready. They both claimed to be right, at least from their point of view. But, I realized that the two of them are suffering from the same disease known as ego. Non of them want to come down and admit his or her wrong action, but the two of them are not without a fault.

You need to possess the mentality that you can't be always right and be ready to say sorry each time you find out that their is a problem as a result of your action, that's the best way to keep things work.

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