Excellent series, Larken. Just like when we were hanging at "your rock" at PorcFest, I really enjoy hearing more about your personal decisions as a father not because I need to follow someone, but because you have a lot of wisdom, and I enjoy learning from it. So many things are cleared up when we look at our biology such as puberty or brain developement. It's so sad how much "authority" bypasses reality to create arbitrary proxies with less than helpful correlation.