What to do if your partner disappears during valentine

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I don’t really subscribe to the idea of doing something special for your loved one only on Valentine day. I believe that should be done regularly and should not only be restricted to February 14.

But then, I have heard of people, especially men who would avoid doing something special for their spouse. I heard one who on Christmas told his girlfriend he can’t take her out and get her something special because Jesus was not really born on the 25th of December, and then on her birthday, he told her he is a member of Jehovah’s Witness and does not believe in celebrating birthdays, then on Valentine, he disappeared.

It would have been a different thing if he is generous, but no, he never gives out anything.

It should be noted that his girlfriend who is a friend of mine broke up with him because she thought he is stingy.

As I was drafting out this article, my sister saw the headline and laughed, saying, “Is it really possible?

The answer is yes! You never can tell, but this can happen to you. You may not see your girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancé and fiancée during this period due to many reasons such as the fact that he/she is with someone else, he is extremely busy, has been kidnapped (really!) then mostly in the case of the guy, he is broke.

If this happens to you, you don’t need to do anything spontaneous, I am sure you would be hurt and unhappy, but it would do you good to calm down first.

Here are somethings you should do.

Pray he/she is alright
Yea, Valentine day is very special and it is a cool way to have fun, exchange gifts, renew vows and see and love each other, but sometimes, things don’t go according to plans.

Therefore it would not be right for you to just be angry that your partner is not with you as a lot of things could have happened.

Therefore, it would be a good idea for you to pray that your partner should be okay first.

Listen to the reasons
When you see your partner, listen to his/her excuse because they could have been kidnapped, could have been sick or extremely busy in the office. You would need to pay attention here in order to discern if he is telling the truth or a lie.
If you think he/she is actually sincere with whatever excuse given, then let it go.

Ask for compensation
If your partner could not take you out and spend time with you because of an emergency, then forgive him but ask for compensation as there are 365 days in a year. So if something comes up on the 14th of February, you still have the 15th, 16th, 17th and many more to make up for that day.

Don’t accept him after
If you discover that your partner could not make it due to a negative reason, then instead of getting mad, dwelling in negativity and looking for ways to revenge, just leave him.

Note that it is too early in the year for you to stress yourself.

Also note that the most common reason why men disappear during this day is mostly because they are broke. Therefore try to help your partner cut his coat according to his size as there are different ways to show love apart from getting expensive items and spending a lot of money.

What do you think? I would really love to read your opinion and addition about this. Thanks.