First of all I congratulate you for the decision you made to stop smoking, as every vice this is also harmful to health.
As for John, I think you do a lot to help him, and I think he knows it and thanks you, but many times people not only have to give them things but teach them how to get them, ie, not give him the fish but teach him to fish.
I am sure that you will know how to guide him towards success and prosperity.
I love your story.