The Perfect Pause: Meditating Your Way to the Ultimate You - Chapter One (continued)
Did you miss the previous post about my book launch? If so, you can Click Here to read it.
Please join me this week as I post excerpts of my new book on meditation. The posts will culminate on the final book launch date...Sunday, June 25th. I hope you enjoy the remainder of Chapter One. If you missed the first portion of the chapter please click the link ^ above ^ to read it.
Each chapter of this book has a section entitled Putting It Into Practice that gives you practical prompts on how to apply what you’ve learned in each chapter to your personal life.
Chapter One (continued)
Before I found meditation, negative self talk looped in my head almost constantly. By continually thinking negative internal thoughts and comparing ourselves to others, many of us fall into a rut of sabotaging the quality our own life experience.
“I’m not smart enough”, “I’m not as good looking or successful as they are”, “This certain person doesn’t like me”, “This idea will never work.” Sound familiar?
Marianne Williamson said, ”Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?”
This quote is important because I’ve come to realize that subconsciously most of us know exactly how powerful we are and it terrifies us. Why? If we admit that we have the power to transform ourselves and accomplish anything in life it’s impossible to blame anyone or anything else for our own unhappiness. Think about this for a moment.
Most of us have heard of the word, “institutionalized” and know its meaning but few of us realize that we have become institutionalized ourselves. Nothing illustrates this concept better than my favorite film, “A Shawshank Redemption.”
As unbelievable as it seems, it is common for prisoners who have been incarcerated for decades, when released, to find themselves unable to deal with freedom. Freedom terrifies them. Some even end up breaking the law to get back into prison. These people, who at first grieve because their freedom has been taken from them, strangely begin to find security and comfort behind the bars that keep them in bondage.
The same phenomena occurs in our daily lives. When we’re young, most of us have clear dreams and aspirations but if we’re not mindful, as the ocean erodes the sand, the routines of life slowly wear our dreams away. After a few years our dreams are pushed back into the farthest corners of our minds and are likely labeled as naive illusions.
As our daily routines literally become etched onto our brains, even though we may be miserably unhappy in our lives, we lose our ability to even imagine a different way of living. We become so dependent upon the routine itself that we forget that other options that would make us far happier exist and are just a decision away!
As you will experience, meditation is many wonderful things but first and foremost it is a process of relearning who we really are and unleashing the awesome power that each and every one of us possess. We are like sleeping giants that merely have to be awakened.
PUTTING IT INTO PRACTICE
Take a moment to access your strengths and weaknesses. What are you really good at? What things about yourself would you like to improve? What are your personal and professional goals for the next year?
List the answers to these questions in the Notes page at the end of this chapter. After a few months of meditation practice, revisit these notes and use them as a guide to see how far you’ve progressed in your development.
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Thank you for reading. Please join me here on Sunday, June 25th for the final kick-off of The Perfect Pause!
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If everybody starts meditating, and starts making a connection with themselves, our spirit and our inner strengths, it is the first step towards a violence-free world. Do No Harm. Start medidating.
@ericwoelk
you are right...meditation is more related to spirituality for me than religion...brings out the inner being which is pure of violence which has taken over the world...we need a violence free world indeed....Thanks @thedanzel for your upvote which shows you agree with us...
do check my blog as i sent my first intro post along with a nice joke
will appreciate if you support me & upvote, if possible resteem and comment...plus follow..thank you
Indeed. I think religion is another potential way to find your path towards spirituality.
I so agree with those statements. I really feel that the world would improve dramatically if more people practiced this!
Agree and it promotes lucid dreaming
Hey, how come cheetah did not pay you a visit if you are posting your own stuff LOL!
Kidding my man, hahahaha!
As I said to Lydon below, I am glad to see you doing so well, you are such a nice dude.
You must get sick of people telling you this every day eh??
(:
Steem On brother EVW!!!
good point lol
Since i discovered meditation and started to practicing it with different types of technics i finally started to be aware of myself. I started to notice my behaviors , my paranoia , fears and etc. I just slowly started to remove them one by one and i just realized that i was wired by so many mind settings just like a computer programmed and i am certainly gonna try this one and share my thoughts about it .Great content , i truly see how much you putting on this posts .
Thank you.
indeed meditation is a critical skill in achieving self-awareness and understanding our relationship to existence. it also heals our cells and energy bodies by consciously tuning your frequency.
@ericvancewalton is a great guy, you will like all his posts and comments, he is a beaut.
Hey Barry, Since I own the rights and it's never been published isn't posting this content okay? Thank you, man! It's always good to have the support and kind words. Steem on, man!
Yes, I was mostly kidding. I have read the stuff on their posts the last few weeks and sometimes people like us that make our content, templates etc sometimes the bot says something -- but I was joking around for sure.
I was out with The Statist again I was telling about your book and our crypto talks tonight.
LOL
Yeah, I was pinged by that cheetah bot a while ago for my joke posts! Haven't seen it for a while though. Thanks for spreading the word about the book. Can't wait to share that one. Would you like to be a beta reader for it?
I will do what I can to help you.
I have a lot of headaches and eye/head issues now with my injuries but I will do my best to help my man.
IDK what a beta reader is, can I just be a regular reader?
LOL!!!
Hey, Barry! A beta reader is just someone who reads the manuscript before it's published and offers feedback.
Followed/upvoted/appreciated! What a cool post. I'm going to check this book out. Sounds like something I need to implement.
Thank you! I appreciate the support!
Your chapter 1: Meditation is Liberation, was a wonderful beginning to your new book, The Perfect Pause! I found your statement; "By continually thinking negative internal thoughts and comparing ourselves to others, many of us fall into a rut of sabotaging the quality our own life experience.", to be so true. Only those who have been through such experiences, truly know the impact of such internal negative thoughts. I know what I've read so far is a realness of true life experiences. Congratulations on a fantastic start! Here's to the success of you new book!
Thank you so much! This process of launching a book is so much work but also so much fun. I appreciate your kind words!
I am thinking about that because I have never pondered that quote from this logical conclusion.
It is cool to read through this and hear your experience pouring off the page. It is clear you have practiced what you are preaching.
Side note, I am excited to see your payouts go up since the hardfork! Many of the trending authors had a decrease in their payouts but yours have nearly doubled it seems. Congratulations!
EVW deserves it. He is one of the nicest people on here.
Whale or No Whale factors considered........ and I feel the same about you Lydon.
Steem On folks!
You are right on BD. Eric is a superb individual and I always enjoy talking with him.
My friend, you always find a way to send out a solid encouragement. Thank you. You are building your way to that whaledom with your 1700+ followers.
Steem on indeed!
I will be honest when I was new, and learned about Steemit and the numbers and stats, I was nervous to even make a comment on posts or replies to people like @ericvancewalton and @stellabelle -- I have told them.
Just bc of their numbers LOL.
I have enjoyed my getting to know them a lot and EVW has become a friend I chat with offline of here at times too, I really blew it not having them as friends in my life earlier.
Live and Learn amen.
(: You are so nice to me, I always appreciate you a lot my man.
You are friends with them now, and how sweet it is.
Live and learn indeed.
It is my nature my friend. Besides, when it is reciprocated by good men like yourself it becomes easy, haha.
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I'm kinda thinkin' you're the nicest guy on Steemit, Barry! Lol. Thank you, man. It's always great to hear from you!
I tagged you in this post a few mins ago in a reply, saying I was intimidated by you, I mentioned it awhile ago to you, which in hindsight was dumb because you are such a nice dude
LOL.
Thank you for all the kindness and support, it has meant more to me than you know most likely.
That is partly why I mention posts to you I have up, I know you are busy, but your comments mean something to me.
Why were you intimidated? No worries, Barry. You're a really good guy. I really like your kindness and revolutionary spirit.
Thank you, Lydon! I really believe in this wholeheartedly after I experienced the benefits in my life. I was so surprised by the increase in post payouts today! What surprised me even more was how much my votes were worth. It was really amazing to see my votes increasing post payouts by almost $10 at 100% power. What an incredible feeling.
Enjoying each piece of your book you share - hopefully this Sunday's release goes well.
It is great! I was surprised as well how much votes were worth.
I kept reading posts that were explaining some of the numbers we would see but it was easier to see the results, haha. It is such fun to vote on someone's post and make a tangible difference in their payout.
Thank you, Lydon!
I'm amazed at that kind of change you're experiencing with your "power" and hope to be there some day too! Well done... bask in it!
Thank you!
Another great read.
I hope you stay optimistic.
5 days left until the final kick off!
Thank you! Yes, I'm feeling very good about this launch. I finally got to hold a copy of the book in my hands and the design exceeded every expectation.
Dr. Elizabeth Hoge, a psychiatrist at the Center for Anxiety and Traumatic Stress Disorders at Massachusetts General Hospital and an assistant professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, says that mindfulness meditation makes perfect sense for treating anxiety. “People with anxiety have a problem dealing with distracting thoughts that have too much power,” she explains. “They can’t distinguish between a problem-solving thought and a nagging worry that has no benefit.”
“If you have unproductive worries,” says Dr. Hoge, you can train yourself to experience those thoughts completely differently. “You might think ‘I’m late, I might lose my job if I don’t get there on time, and it will be a disaster!’ Mindfulness teaches you to recognize, ‘Oh, there’s that thought again. I’ve been here before. But it’s just that—a thought, and not a part of my core self,'” says Dr. Hoge.
Great advice! Meditation has been highly effective in lessening my own anxiety and panic. Thank you!
Being able to spend time in nature is also a wonderful way of meditating..sitting and enjoying all that Mother Nature provides us allows us to push away our mind to appreciating what is in the moment.
Immersing yourself in nature is a great way to hit the "reset button" for your consciousness. When I feel totally overwhelmed a walk in the woods with our dog always helps no matter what.
I am fortunate to get to walk along a rover bank every day...this is my meditation!
Yes it is amazing sensation in nature...I love it especially by water!
Thts a good article very detailed ,cant wait for the final kick-off of The Perfect Pause!!!!
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Thank you very much for the support!
You are welcome sir. Much love from Zimbabwean community.
Wonderful! I return that love back to you all. We're happy to have you all here!
THANK YOU VERY MUCH WILL DO SO.
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Do you refer to meditation techniques that are closely tied to asian or eastern cultures? Any thoughts on Christian meditation?
I learned Kriya Yoga meditation but am a firm believer that all forms of meditation are beneficial. The style you wish to practice is a very personal choice. I'm a proponent of it all!