Why we should Marriage !

razipelangi (54)in #steempress • 6 years ago

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Today I would like to share you about Marriage.

Why Marry?. Marriage is a Covenant marriage carried out by two people (men and women) with the purpose of inaugurating a legally marriage bonds of religion, State law, and customary law. When a man or woman is live romance, it would be better if the forward it to the wedding. Why should a marriage license? But without marriage any time I can also have a partner. OMG that’s Wrong.

You need to know, human beings are basically "Zoon Politicon" means a human being always together other human life and then in the Association community. Living together in society is one of the symptoms typical for humans and only humans who have abnormalities who intend living exile from others. One of the smallest form of living together is the family. This family consists of a father, mother, and children of the marriage.

In Islam, marriage is a human nature that a muslim can assume responsibilities mandate the most in himself against the people who are most entitled to education and maintenance. In addition, marriage has the most benefit to other social interests. Social importance it was to maintain the continuity of human kind, nurturing offspring, maintaining the safety of the public from all sorts of ailments that can endanger human life and safeguard the peace of the soul.

In addition to having great avail, marriage has a very noble purpose i.e. form a happy family, based on the immortal divinity of the one true God. This is in accordance with the formula contained in law No. 1 year 1974 article 1 that: "marriage is a bond between the inner and a woman with a man as husband and wife with the aim of forming a family (household) which happy and remain upon the divinity of the one true God ".

The reason why you should get married.
Complement religion
Anyone who is married, he has complete half of his religion. And let him devoted to God in maintaining that half again. (HR. Thabrani dan Hakim).

Honoring the self
O youths! Whoever among you guys capable of marriage, then go marriage, because the marriage was easier to subdue the more views and fortify farji (pubic). And he who can not afford, then let him fast, as fast it could fortify himself. (HSR. Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, Tirmidzi, Nasaiy, Darimi, Ibnu Jarud dan Baihaqi).

His light-heartedness spouses is not futile deeds

Everything in it does not contain dzikrullah is futile, light-heartedness, and games, but four of the (lawsuit), namely light-heartedness husband with wife train a horse, practicing archery, and teach swimming. (The book of etiquette of Zifaf Al-Albani a-Z terms of 245; Genealogy of the Al Ahadits Ash Shahihah No. 309).

Family life is the fields reaching the reward
Sex/Intercourse with his wife including alms
Once there are some companions of the Prophet PEACE BE UPON HIM said to him, "O Messenger of Allah, the wealthy have been buy up reward. Can they pray as we pray; they can be fast as we fasted; even they can give out charity with an excess of their property. " He said, "didn't Allah gave you guys something can you guys gave out charity? In each speech the Rosary there is alms; (on every utterance interpretation there is alms; on every utterance tahlil there is alms; on every tahmid greeting there is alms); ordered the good deed is charity; prevent the deed it is alms; and you guys have intercourse with his wife else alms. " They asked, "O Messenger of Allah, how can one of us wreak his desires will get a reward?" He replied, "How did you guys when lust desires that he distributes on the place of the unlawful, whether he will get the sin because his deeds?" (They replied, "Yes, sure." He said,) "Similarly when he distributes it at the place his desires lawful, he will get the reward." (He then mention a few more things which he contrasted each with a charity, and then he said, "it all can be replaced simply by two raka'at Duha prayer.") (The book of etiquette of Zifaf Al-Albani a-Z terms of 125).

Reward for giving a good example
"Anyone who is first to give an example of good behavior in Islam, then he got his reward for his kindness, and reward those who imitate his actions without the slightest reduced. And whoever is the first to give an example of the ugly behavior in Islam, then he gets the sins of evil and get people who imitate his actions without the slightest reduced. " (HR. by Muslim, textbooks Shalihin Riyadush the first Person Chapters do good or evil.)
How do you think if there is a head of household who gave examples of good deeds for his house and imitated by his wife and children? Likewise when a head of household gives a bad example for her family?
A husband gives a living, eat, drink, and clothing to his wife and his family will be counted among the most important charity. And will be replaced by God, is God's promise.
Of the many reasons why you should marry above, may be able to answer your question "why should get married?". Hopefully this article can open our hearts particularly who are courting weaves to immediately proceed to the altar, if indeed ready and inner.

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