Hello friends of @steemiteducation, a pleasure to greet you today and wanted to touch on a topic that as a parent I am sure that at some point you had to analyze and confront and that we always have in mind how to educate and create good people, with a good character decided and that have the strengths and strengths to face the different types of situations that can be faced throughout his life.

When we educate our children, questions may arise about how to strengthen their character. It is a fundamental point because if we strengthen the character of the child, he will be able to make the right decisions throughout his life. Each child is different and has its own personality, but it is important that we enhance its qualities and transmit basic values ​​to be a better person.

Parents must be certain that whatever their child's character needs to successfully face the adversities present in life. It is for them that since they are small, parents have to be aware of educating them correctly because they are very important during their socialization and those they take as a model to imitate.

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How to strengthen the character of the child

Many doubts arise when it comes to strengthening the character of our children and enhancing their virtues and values. In order to successfully tackle this task it is important that you keep the following ideas in mind:

• The importance of instilling values.

Although children are small and it is more expensive to understand some concepts, you can explain the importance of honesty, kindness, empathy ... through daily stories or example. It is also not that you overwhelm them with this aspect, but you should know that parents are the example of their children, especially in their first years of life.

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At four or five years of age, the child will absorb everything he perceives as fears, pleasures or activities. At this stage, the behavior of parents will be very important to them.

• Direct interaction with your children.

It is very important that there is a clear and direct communication between parents and children, so that they explain the daily things, identify the problems, the options they have and the consequences of making certain decisions. In this way we will be empowering our son to act in a responsible way and understanding the reason of each of his decisions and actions.

You can ask them each day how they did, find topics to highlight good behavior or reaffirm empathy. If we educate them in this way since they are young, we will be teaching them to be strong and kind people with others

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• Motivation.

It is important that parents value their children's small achievements and congratulate them. You can say phrases of the time "I'm sure you can do better". Valuing their efforts and motivating them is the best way to grow your children with healthy self-esteem.

Parents tend to punish and comment on the negative behaviors of their children with comments that do not help at all, such as "you always behave badly or you always do badly". It's about helping to correct your child's inappropriate behaviors from a positive angle. What we do by highlighting their negative attitudes is that they create it and become more insecure.

It is a priority that parents strengthen the character of their child and use positive phrases that are what help to shape the character of your child. Instead of saying phrases like "never leave your toys", bet on saying "how good you share your toys, you are very kind".

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• Promote good actions

You can motivate them to participate in charity activities and to share their toys. In this way, you are teaching them not to be selfish.

• It establishes limits in its behavior.

This will give them greater security and tranquility since they will see you as the leader of the family.

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• Assign responsibilities to your children.

Remember that it is very important that your children help you with home chores according to their age and their needs. In this way you will be contributing to strengthen the character of the child so that it is a participative person in society.

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That we help our children to form their character helps us to form people with strength and strength to overcome difficulties as well as to quesean people of good, with values ​​and customs that will surely take them on a good path and with possibilities to help the the rest.

I invite you to put into practice these tips that I am sure can help you in this difficult task of parenting.

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