Good community of the Steemit, I salute in order to send this post, in order that will allow us to have a bit of knowledge about behavior that we must take us as parents at the time lead us to our children without to abuse and cries, so that these will not be affected, avoiding trauma from an early age, I hope you like it and you can implement it in their homes.
It is common to see parents worried about the behavior of their children, and correct many times in an improper manner, therefore there are methods that contribute to the behavior of the children. We can take as a reference to the sociologist and teacher education initial Ingrid Trejo, who explains to us, children are not born mal humorados, nor ill-educated, everything is in parenting and communication with parents.
The representatives are advised each other saying that children need a pair of carved to behave or learn, but the facts say that coups are not the solution, they don't learn that way, when you hit what is accomplished is bad acostumbrarlos. Trejo says.
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There are techniques that stop tantrums in time, it is repeated enough, but it is effective: communication, parents should talk to children when they are learning to walk and are curious to touch everything, say 'no' often as may be necessary or When something is wrong helps them to identify what should be or do. When something uncontrolled, it is normal to hear the cries of desperate parents, causing more strain on both, ideally, place the child to manage codes of comunicacion.
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Communication codes, are used to talk to kids without having to engage in a talk long, ideal for moments where the scenario is not the most propitious, such as meetings or public transport. You have a word that they know how to identify, as 'at home we speak' but less intense. I recommend long phrases such as * it's time, don't do it more, we are in the street, and now is not the time *, everything depends on the creativity of parents, many use numbers or letters and the children understand that they should stop the tantrum.
One of the tips that we use for these types of cases are extracurricular activities, they are super necessary. From 3 years children should be involved in additional studies activities, like swimming, music, among others. And there are many disciplines that may be children and not necessarily needs to invest much money, "existen free recreational activities, but also parents can organize a schedule and plan home activities like painting with tempera and also kinds of creative cuisine by means of videos.
It is important to control the temper-tantrums since they are small so that adolescence is not complicated to remove them, "a children must control them since they commit the first tantrum, then it will already be too late to isolate these wrong attitudes, which in the background are not specific to them. He also emphasized that parents should avoid projecting bad attitudes, because children tend to repeat them. You must lead by example, to be able to demand respect.
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Good friends of the Steeemit, I hope that this information is helpful to consider at the moment that we find ourselves in a situation where communication with our children it is more effective and cordial to strengthen the teaching of them.
"Creating communication codes, and maintaining them, is way healthier you have a relationship with your children"
