I hope you find your community. I hope you continue to look at the pages of those who stop to leave a comment on your posts. Write them down, if they return, they are your growing loyal tribe. Write down who interests you. Then maybe one day the steemit chat will just be a place to stop by, instead of waiting and asking and instead you can continue to focus on these worthy posts that to be honest, are monetarily more than I make in general. You are on your way. Engage these people not just in comments. But return to their pages and see if you truly connect with them. You might not even like what I share on steemit. That is ok. But you might like these other people's posts. That is a secret for you, appreciate your positives, appreciate the people who see your potential. Appreciation, appreciates.