Children totally devastated because of their parents.

Never turn problems over your children. This is the testimony of a girl who grew up in a home devastated by lawsuits, because of the problems of others, because her parents no longer cared about their children's feelings, they only care about being right in a discussion, in being able to win the fight. Her life was like being in the fight ring. She feels that they owe her a life, that they took away her joy, that they took away the desire to live, that they took away her childhood, they ruined her for living in hell.

Violence in the home is not only limited to beatings, it is also the screaming, the lawsuits, the insults, and every day there are thousands and thousands of children exposed to these harsh environments, what sadness for those children who have to live in those terms.

They may not see now, do not understand how these moments mark the life of a child, perhaps in marriage they have what you as adults think is a small discussion that got out of control. But the insults, the bad words, as verbally attacked mark the child and his capacity to feel safe.

This hostile environment marks the child so deeply, that there is no longer the way to express what he feels, and he becomes isolated more and more, he does not know what to feel, he does not know what to do, many of them cry inconsolably at night, because joy, peace, tranquility were taken from them, and all of their little world falters, while their parents fight and are content and thus the routine is created where the child grows, and nope realize that they are killing the trust of their children. The parents are so locked in themselves that they do not realize how much damage they do to the little ones.

Many of these children end up having trouble concentrating on their studies, others have trouble having friendships, and they isolate themselves in every way, other children suffer from depression or personality problems, most have low self-esteem, and everyone feels the syndrome of orphanhood. Because even if they have their parents they feel that link has been broken.

This state in children makes them vulnerable to any kind of danger, especially the danger of sexual abuse by some depraved who is near, because those depraved know that trust has been broken in their parents and did not count at all.

We are already in a rather cruel world, do not add that kind of pressure on your children and do not adopt that lifestyle is too harmful. You've seen the suicide rate in infants (Between April 2016 and March 2017 there were 250 deaths due to school-age suicide, five more than the previous year, the highest since 1986.) This happened in Japan. And how many other thousands of cases around the world. And many times the puzzled parents do not know what the root of the problem was. For they were the fights they had to witness, the pressure that such a hostile environment exerted on them, they could no longer bear the pain and they took the worst desicion in the universe.

Do not be the destroyer of your own son.