SEC S15W4: "Broken Trust"

in Steem4Nigeria2 years ago
I’m @aspiya from #Bangladesh

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Greetings to all my friends. I trust that you are now experiencing a condition of optimal physical well-being and satisfaction. I am delighted to Participating in the Steem for Nigeria Community’s "Broken Trust" engagement challenge this week.


What do you think the word trust means?

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I think Trust is the invisible bridge between souls, built with whispers of loyalty and fortified with the bricks of unwavering faith. The traits of honesty, reliability, and integrity constitute the connection, but they must be handled with care. When we trust someone, we can let our guard down and feel safe; we know they will treat our vulnerability with empathy and care. Loyalty, understanding, and a feeling of safety are nurtured via the development of meaningful connections, which are linked and grounded by the invisible thread.


Presently in your country, do the citizens feel safe to trust one another? If not why? And if yes why?

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When it comes to trust, people in Bangladesh have mixed sentiments. The human race has a long tradition of being trustworthy and uncomplicated. On the other hand, skepticism and caution have been on the rise recently. A lot of people think it's getting harder to trust because of how common greed and deception are. Fearing for their safety, people are becoming more circumspect in their dealings. There is still a lot of trust among Bangladeshis because of their common history and a strong sense of community.


Have you had any experience where your trust in someone was broken? Or such a scenario from a Friend?

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I've had a similar experience with betrayal from a close friend. who I thought of as more like family. We couldn't have been apart while we were in college. I completely believed her and told her everything. I was by his side in good times and bad times. She had lied to me several times also caught that she lied, and broke my trust many times but I forgave her. I did notice a change in our relationship as time went on and our college days came to an end. She seemed to move away, talking less and being farther away. Despite my best efforts to have a healthy connection with her, I couldn't help but feel exploited and disregarded. The worst thing was when she got married and I wasn't even asked to share in her happiness. It shattered my heart since this betrayal made me question the authenticity of our bond. How someone we trusted so much could cause us such profound pain is beyond our comprehension. Because of this, I am now more cautious about trusting other people, but I also value true generosity and loyalty more than before.


Can you suggest ways to mend broken trust?

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Fixing trust takes time and effort to mend. The most important thing is to talk about it, share how you feel, and listen to each other's points of view with compassion. Sincerely apologize if you are at fault, and be patient until trust is rebuilt. Reliability is shown via consistent activities, such as following through on pledges and commitments. Set limits and clarify expectations to avoid miscommunication in the future. And lastly, if you want to move on constructively, you need to put forgiveness first and let go of old grudges.

Broken trust is profound, but time, conversation, and sincere effort may heal relationships. Rebuilding involves understanding, forgiveness, and a fresh commitment to honesty and dependability. Restoring trust may be difficult, but it gives promise for better, more durable relationships.

I would like to invite my friends @irawandedy @venezolanos, @dulcem05 and to participate in this contest.


Thank You So Much Everyone

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 2 years ago 

Trust, an invisible bridge built on loyalty and faith. In Bangladesh, mixed sentiments prevail; historical trust battles rising skepticism. Experienced betrayal from a close friend, challenging the authenticity of bonds. To mend trust, communicate, apologize sincerely, show reliability, set clear expectations, and prioritize forgiveness. Time, conversation, and effort can heal and rebuild relationships. Inviting @irawandedy, @venezolanos, @dulcem05 to participate.

 2 years ago 

Thank you so much for reviewing my post....

Beautiful and assertive words. Thank you for the invitation. Success in the contest! Fraternal greetings!

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 2 years ago 

Greetings dear friend,

Thank you very much for presenting us with a beautiful post.

So much love, so much respect, so much love for him, but now he is busy with his family, but he doesn't have any kind of talk with you, the worst thing is that despite having such a good relationship, he didn't invite you to his wedding, it's a big surprise, anyway for you. Good luck.

 2 years ago 

Greetings,

Thank you so much dear brother for reading my post..

 2 years ago (edited)

Whoa, Benar-benar ungkapan yang sangat indah! Kepercayaan memang bertindak sebagai jembatan tak terlihat yang menghubungkan jiwa-jiwa, memungkinkan mereka untuk melintasi kedalaman kerentanan dan keintiman dengan keyakinan dan keamanan. Kepercayaan dibangun dengan hati-hati melalui tindakan kesetiaan dan diperkuat oleh keyakinan yang teguh, yang disatukan oleh batu bata yang kuat dari kejujuran, keandalan, dan integritas.

Ketika kita mempercayai seseorang, itu seperti menyerahkan diri ke dalam pelukan rasa aman dan pengertian. Ini adalah jaminan bahwa kerentanan kita akan ditangani dengan empati dan perhatian, menumbuhkan lingkungan di mana kita dapat benar-benar menjadi diri kita sendiri tanpa takut dihakimi atau dikhianati.

Sukses untukmu teman, salam hangat 👍

 2 years ago 

Hello dear, I wish to you to be in peace and living their best moments of life.
The presentation of your post is very beautiful, you are right, it takes a lot of time to repair the broken trust because trust is very precious, it is as precious as it is fragile, hence both the parties should try not to break the trust. They should maintain transparency in their relationship.
I enjoyed reading your post. Wish you good may you always achieve whatever you aim for yourself in life and make the best journey .Greetings from me Have a beautiful.

 2 years ago 

Greetings, thank you so much for reading my blog and your beautiful words...

Regards.

Beautiful and touching publication. Thank you for the invitation. Success in the contest! Fraternal greetings!

 2 years ago 

Greetings,
you're most welcome..

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