share your thoughts about love
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Greetings to you all in the steem4bloggers community. I am so happy to be bringing to you my entry on this amazing contest which is going to discuss about LOVE. Quite an interesting topic to discuss on , I will break it down into simple major steps for easy understanding.
The definition of love is different for everyone, but what is the definition of love for me??
That's right, everyone has their perception about love and how they see it or define it, but then here's what I have to say about love.
Love is the unconditional, exceptional, purpectual, and devotional feeling We have for someone or something. It could be family, something we value the most or even our pets. Love does not have to be easy but How we feel about these people or things Is what matters the most. Love can take many forms, such as romantic love, familial love, platonic love, or even love for a hobby or passion.
Let's get to know the different forms of love.
Romantic love: A passionate and emotional connection between two individuals.
Familial love: The unconditional bond between our family members .
Platonic love: The deep affection and friendship between people who must not necessarily be romantically involved.
Self-love: The appreciation , care and acceptance of oneself.
I have to feel love, do I think the one I feel comfortable with is love? Or the one I present myself in front of is love??
Alright, this question it's something people get confused about sometimes. The way you feel about someone sometimes does not necessarily have to be love. We should know the difference, which could be how we desire someone or sometimes just being lust after someone.
There are people in life with Good vibes, good energy, and a lot of maturity. Their presence make you feel comfortable and you are able to share your thoughts with them without being judged. This kind of people are hard to see nowadays as everybody getting the notion the wrong way most often.
If I have to present myself in front of someone, I have to make it clear the The reason why I approach them and then make my intentions clear. With love. We do not have to assume about anything, perhaps we have to speak about mind to be so sure whatever we give out is reciprocated in return.
Most people better nowadays. Just assume by showing someone love, or how to feel about someone, it automatically makes them feel the same about you. Hell no, it doesn't work that way. What you feel about someone must not necessarily be how they feel about you. That is why we have a lot of mistrust heartbreaks And self-sabotage most commonly.
To conclude, I feel love With people would genuinely takes care of me, want the best for me and would like to see me grow. It can extend to just platonic Love or romantic love depending on whoever is concerned in Question. But most often I desire family. Love over all forms of love. It is real and From the heart.
Family or friends, love is different for everyone, do I think I should ever sacrifice something for love??
Of course! Yes, I can sacrifice some things for love. Number one case comes with family. I have this genuine connection with my family, especially my siblings in such a way that I would do anything for them. Most often there are hard decisions I have to make just to make sure my family is okay. I can sacrifice finances, time and effort just to satisfy.
Friendship is not left out. It depends on how our connection is based on. If it is based on trust, commitment and maturity, then I am willing to forgo some things to see my friends Duel in life. We just have to be in good times and let the connection be reciprocating. If I have a problem and I call you and you show up always without judgment or asking why, you are my kind of person and I will do the same for you.
Who I love, do they also love me?? Those whom I consider an integral part of my life, do they also think the same??
Over the past years, I have lived to see that my family love is genuine and mutual. My siblings will do the same for me as I would do for them. Most often I put them before me and make sure we live in harmony and tranquility. That is the first kind of love I experience.
Going to romantic love, If I'm dating someone and we have a thing or connection, I would like to keep my part real. On the other side, it's up to them to feel the same or reciprocate. Like they say we can for someone to be committed to us. Also reciprocate the love we give for them.
If I'm keeping it real with you, I want the same you feeling for me but then I'll be so wise enough to know if it's real or Fake. So I know exactly my position and not overreact or overhype myself in certain situations. Currently I don't do romantic love for now, I'm More focused on my future and goals and I will get to that when I find my life is going in the right direction first.
Coming to friendship , friendship is something which has to be genuine and based on trust. Do you trust your friends, Can you sacrifice some things for them. These are things we need to consider here. I am so picky with friends who don't give me the kind of Vibe I want. First my intentions are real but then I let the action speak for them. If I find out you are not my real friend, I'm keeping you far From my circle.
Presently I have just like one or two friends who I trust and I genuinely know that, The sacrifice I can do for them they could do it for me too. It feels good to have someone who you Can call a real friend, or you can call up to when you're in need. But I kind of friendship is very scarce today. When you have one real friend, keep them.
The role of love in human life:
Emotional fulfillment: Love provides us with a sense of belonging and happiness.
Social connection: Love strengthens our relationships and fosters community.
Personal growth: Love can inspire us to become better versions of ourselves.
In conclusion, considering the fact that love can bring immense joy and fulfillment, it can also be accompanied by challenges and heartbreak. Understanding the complexities of love can help us navigate our own relationships and appreciate the beauty of this universal emotion.
I would like to invite a following persons participate with me on this contest. @simonnuigwe, @chant, @sduttaskitchen
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