Firstly, Thankyou so much for posting in our community . Thanks for coming here and sharing insights upon the idea of "HOME" .
Home is a place where you feel the safest.
It is not a materialistic idea for me but a place of memories, moments ,events each and everything is a home for me.
I cherish memories with my love ones that is when I feel like home.
For me a place of calm, serenity with garden and nature doesn't really reflect "home". But the idea of when you are comfortable with others, with your love ones, you enjoy all the memories together , life experiences hence the process itself is somewhat a home for me.
As you are building a farmhouse ,do you think the process might change or enhance the idea of what a home is?