Any ability that I might have had to have guilt-free sex in my life was obliterated by the church and my mother. While I appreciate the effort to caution me against certain aspects, there is a fine line between caution and damage.
Oh well. My self-preservation mechanism kicked in long ago which tells me sex is overrated, and I'm not missing anything.
That's a shame. I feel for you. I get it, tho. But it still saddens me that a natural and necessary act that is also healthy for both parties can be ruined by religion.