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The 12 Signs
When it comes to sex, Aries craves instant gratification. If single, she'll usually have a booty-call number logged into her speed dial; and in relationships, she's gotta have it more than any other woman on the astrological wheel. She's a woman in pursuit of her own orgasm. And she'll think nothing, for instance, of waking up a lover by shagging him.
She is a notorious masturbator, something she'd readily admit. She plays with herself during sex as well, not wanting to waste time having the guy do it—no matter how ædept he is, he won't get her there as assuredly as she can. Besides, she doesn't want him distracted from the simple role he's here to perform, and that is quite frankly to ram her, expertly and thoroughly.
Sucking a guy is pretty low on her priority list, as the act somewhat offends Aries's no-service sensibilities. She is an aficionado of positions and connoisseur of techniques, highly skilled in her role as the wildest ride on the planet.
As a nod to her #Lilith archetype, she likes it on top. Aries will simultaneously squeeze, pump & hump her man with such ardor that he must possess reserves of natural staying power if he's not to disappoint this most insistent female. Just as she can drink most guys under the table, she can easily outscrew them as well, and if that means an all-nighter, then so much the better—sex with her always seems somewhat competitive.
Sex isn't something to engage in lightly or to participate in slightly, for Taurus requires complete surrender, which, in turn, culminates in a kind of transcendent ecstatic state. This is rarely had by assuming control or taking an assertive position in the sack. Taurus is the literal flip side of that sign that precedes hers (ARIES) and thus requires to be thoroughly worked over by a man.
She doesn't want to be ransacked, however, in any way, shape, or form. Rather she craves a slow, sensual, systematic detailing of her entire being, the bulk of her sexual excitement stemming from utter acquiescence to a man's exploration and domination of her, executed sweetly but deeply. The Bull girl really appreciates a beefcake, particularly if it extends to her boyfriend's bits & pieces. For her, it's both the meat AND the motion. And if anything could dispel her wide-eyed, unquestioning view of a mate—and fast—it's a failure to sufficiently deliver such goods.
The simple truth is that Taurus will rarely commit to a guy for the long run unless he's stellar in the sack. Money, looks, sense of humor—all such other bullet points on her checklist go right out the window if her man lacks in the lovemaking department.
Gemini will always retain an aspect of wanting to lose herself in sex. Playing capture can be cute, but it's total rapture she's really after, being transfixed by the sexual act without necessarily having to credit the man who's on hand to help her achieve her aim. He's there to provide the ride. And Gemini can be downright bossy in the bedroom, often forgetting that her lover's role isn't only to do her bidding. Consequently, she often enters into relationships with sexually immature men, or even somewhat namby-pamby ones—opting for an opposite type to the overbearing man she may have felt abused by at some point in her past. Besides, as a mutable mix of masculine & feminine energies, as befits #Mercury's androgynous neutered glyph, Gemini feels a commonality with a guy who possesses a strong, sensitive feminine side.
In some cases, she may even thrive on sexually overpowering a decidedly fey male. Whereas most women find male homosexuality a hands-down turnoff, the Gemini may be both psychologically intrigued & erotically titillated. In fact, she'd sooner engage in a threesome with 2 men as opposed to the more commonplace girl-guy-girl ménage, knowing she won’t be the overwhelming focus. She might get off on watching what transpires sexually between guys, if for no other reason than to satisfy her infamous curiosity, seeing what she knows most women will never see. Watching such a tryst, she is rather unshockable as, like her LIBRA air-sign cousin, she can be something of an honorary gay man herself.
Indeed, Cancer is conducting what even modern-day Wiccan would call a wee bit of #sexmagic each and every time she hits the sheets. She is so completely involved in the act and, naturally attuning herself to the experiences—never letting it consume her—she harnesses the transformative power of the proceedings, forever conjuring from it what she needs as emotional sustenance. She eventually conjures up exactly the kind of guy for whom she would pack in her past experience and settle down. Feeling out every dark corner of her sexuality, and calculating her likes & dislikes, Cancer woman develops a very distinct sense of self.
Speaking of going down, this is an area about which she’s generally unenthused, though certainly not outright squeamish. She performs #fellatio with savage, if not toothy, abandon, making a man fear for his parts. But her haste might just be a by-product of hurrying the 'job' along. Despite the obvious pleasure oral sex conveys, she sees having her kitty licked as merely a fleeting precursor to penetration.
While Leo woman easily reaches climax via #clitoral stimulation, she considers the sensation rather too acute to completely satisfy, not to mention being a pale substitute for the full-body #orgasms she luxuriates in when aroused vaginally. This is yet one more reason why those tender types don’t stand a chance with Leo woman. She requires a real he-man in the sack, a guy who is less about technique and more about just powerfully plugging away.. She requires a fiercely masculine lover precisely so she can be her ferocious, aggressive sexual self and still manage to come off like a delicate flower in comparison.
Sex with the #Virgo woman can be a tough task indeed. Most guys will tire before she does. To experience the full pleasure of sex with the Virgo female, a man must possess a heroic degree of staying power. Being result-oriented will get him nowhere. With her, it's about enjoying the process, building excitement, giving & taking in equal measure—the sign of Virgo, after all, represents mutuality.
Still, the sexual experience must be powered by LOVE. Virgo can only reciprocate in her signature extraordinary way if that physical intelligence tells her a partner is deeply into her, literally & figuratively. Her perfect mate is someone who, unlike those guys who bolted when faced with her obvious emotional depth, welcomes so unfathomable female as she.
Virgo matches a man's every stroke. A man will indeed feel the earth move, patiently giving over to pleasure. The more instinctually he works her, the more she’ll become putty in his hands. Intuitively, she senses the subtlest of needs to ease or speed up, as if her #yoni itself discerns the way to make his #lingham grow without blowing its stack.. Her body involuntarily teases, squeezes, and eventually vacuums a man into her.. Virgo will experience her one climax as seismic, originating from so subterranean a spot in herself as to throw her entire being into uncontrollable spasms.
A willingness to be blatantly passive may easily extend to her offering up her Virgo-ruled rectum—she derives nearly as much pleasure from this orifice as she does from the other.
Leather, typically part and parcel of attracting those motorcycle men for whom she will always have a weakness, is a particular Virgo fetish.
69 is by far her favorite sex act: She seems to derive as much pleasure from blowing a guy as she herself gets from being munched—while it's combination of simultaneous acts being performed (the inherent #YinYang) that truly drives her forward. Libra is always conscious of what she's doing in bed, and the mental picture of herself and a lover is highly erotic to her. Fittingly, she relishes watching herself with her man, whether in a well-placed mirror or via playback of a homemade video.
Libra is confident in her sexual performance, aware that she possesses expert talents. Oral sex is her special province, and being on the giving end is, well, a heady power-trip for her. She thrills at having her man, literally, by the balls. In fact, it is a particularly Libra-female fantasy to render a pretty-boy helpless, toying with his orgasm, bringing him to the brink, only to leave him whining for a finish. At this type of teasing foreplay, and screwing too, she is intuitive, economic in her movements, imaginatively mixing speeds, pressures, and positions. She'll keep her eyes open fueling excitement through the looks & sounds she elicits from her lover.
She loathes dirty chatter, as well as feigned moans & groans—she is a silent sexual persona. Despite her pristine appearance, she's not put off by a messy sexual atmosphere. Men are not as foreign to her as they are to many women, and so she feels as little revulsion for the male sex as she does reverence.
Scorpio is the sign of sex, after all, with the Serpent as one of its symbols—in tantric thought, a female serpent #Kundalini is said to be coiled around the lowest chakra, that of the pelvis. Scorpio naturally knows how to wake the snake inside, her breathing during sex working in perfect synchronicity with the muscles of her vagina—this accounts for any delay in orgasm, as she lets it come rather than forcing it to happen. She becomes one with the sex act, which seems to put her into a trancelike state.
She finds great pleasure in rendering a man helpless, tying him up and torturing him with, at the very least, a little tickling. She may be an outright dominatrix, turned on by enslaving a submissive man, seeing him grovel for her sexual attention.
Control is important to Sag during sex, and with her typically athletic body, particularly her strong thighs & legs, she can sustain vigorous positions longer than most women. Whatever she may lack in limberness, she more than makes up for in sheer stamina.
Sag is basically a good girl who merely fancies herself someone with exotic tastes. The kinkiest she gets is in exploration of her exhibitionist tendencies. Indeed, most every Sag enjoys masturbating for her boyfriend far more than she likes to do alone. Just as Sag male elevates this own #onanism to new heights, so, too, does his female counterpart make art out of popping her own cork, reveling in her ability to blind her lover with graphically elaborate displays of self-appreciation, as being 'naughty' becomes something of a fetish for someone so naturally nice & wholesome as Sag.
Deep down, Sagittarius has an inherently low-key attitude toward sex, but she feels compelled to add a bit of pomp to each carnal circumstance. Alas, it all looks so much better in her head than when in the midst of a sweaty mess, let alone when having to strip the sheets—reason enough to hire a maid. For the most part, Sag is really in love with the seduction & romance. While, even her most intimate acts smack of that ever-present exhibitionism, this is one specific sexual arena in which the Sag woman might overindulge.
What appeals is the temptation of bringing her sexual life with a man into public view. Life, for Sag, should be all buildup, a prolonged state of over-the-top foreplay.
She is not experimental by nature, preferring to stick to the same well-loved, reliable routine, even in the same order, so she knows what to look forward to next. Sex is not a jaded affair for the Goat girl, and as cliche as it sounds, for her each time feels like the first time. This is another reason why she likes bedding those considerably younger guys—she shares the sense of newness that is naturally felt by guys still sexually wet behind the ears. When with an older partner, an unjaded exuberance must still be a relationship keynote, particularly palpable between the sheets. Cap finds the very anticipation of sex as exciting, if not more so, than the nitty-grittiness of the act itself.
The wildest thing about Cap woman is her love of fantasy, and especially the idea of covert sexual activity. As pornlike as it may sound, she enjoys interaction with men in the service industries whose job it is to be polite while doing her bidding. Cap woman may see no conflict between satisfying her sexual needs elsewhere while still devoting her emotional self fully to a primary relationship.
When it comes to love, her heart is forever in the right place; but if other parts of her aren't being used to full capacity, Cap might fill that particular hole with another more willing & able to help. Her attitude is sophisticated: Sex is an isolated experience, something she simply wants done, and done right. Chances are, given her slow-climbing nature, that Cap woman orgasms at a higher level than most, perpetually staving off the temptation to pop her cork until such time as it is impossible to stop. By suppressing her pleasure, Cap seeks to enhance the purity of the experience.
For this #Uranus-ruled sign, serendipity & surprise will always be important elements for keeping the erotic experience new & exciting. Not knowing everything about her partner's life, allowing for that whiff of mystery, keeps the Aquarian guessing—she comes to expect the unexpected. Spontaneity is arousing to the #Waterbearer, whose fantasies often involve being taken abruptly by a man. She doesn't relish or require long, drawn-out, touchy-feely sessions & romantic gazing into one another's eyes. Real, sudden human urges are what she is all about (not playing footsie for hours at a restaurant as a precursor to foreplay). It is the bestial side of men that attracts her most.
She simply goes bonkers for a braniac with the body of a sexy beast. She likes big lugs, those who look as if they can manhandle her with just the right amount of roughness. #Aquarius woman is not a sensualist; she’s a sexualist, and she appreciates a man who won't (pardon the pun) beat around the bush. She wants all her buttons pressed—preferably, all at once—with the least amount of ceremony possible.
Indeed, more than any other female, Aquarian will boast a goody drawer filled with colorful plastic cylindrical objects, vividly flavored contraceptives, tickling devices, and the like. Sex is all fun & games for her, and toys tend to work their way into the proceedings between her and a lover. Her body isn't so much a temple as it is a play house.
She's easily grossed out by the actual carnal function & machinations of sex—the sweating, the odors, the emitting of fluids totally clash with her dreamy visions. Some Pisces women are so vehemently squeamish about sex that, when they become pregnant, friends & family who know them best are inclined to suspect some form of immaculate conception.
Pisces needs a partner who is a combination of all 3 aspects of manhood: male love-object, humble provider, and masculine beast. Pisces woman is alone a full-time occupation. She is thoroughly preoccupied with herself, not to mention how well or not she is being treated by others. Her partner comes under the most direct scrutiny.
The unsuspecting fellow who falls for the Fish always gets more than he bargained for, which generally becomes apparent in short order. For someone who seems so untouchable and hard-to-get, she expects the bond to become almost instantly serious. Indeed, Pisces moves from one major relationship to another in search of Mr. Right, in the meantime craving the confines of even a troublesome bond on which she can depend. When she happens upon a man who fits her unconscious criteria as the perfect mate, she wastes no time securing the bond. She needs so full of a man's attention as to border on obsession—this is evidenced by her nearly maniacal jealous streak, one fueled by her infamously wild imagination.
Dissolving as she does into every experience, the sexually-seasoned Pisces who has had her illusions gloriously shattered more than a few times will be extra compliant when it comes to a man's demands in the bedroom. Providing the guy with a profound sexual experience is the quickest she knows of putting a man under her enchanting spell.
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