Mr/Miss Right:: Or Mr/Miss Virtuous

This posts actually an extension of my comment on @prettyjules158's post on 'Mr Right'
So I decided to share with large audience.

Where she stated:

""When I asked a girl friend this question (is there a right partner?) this morning, I was already smiling because I perceived a straight answer was almost impossible and guess what her reply was."

"The question is subjective."

"I smiled waiting for her to hit the points."

She continued.

"This is what I mean, the answer can be different for everyone."

"Who seems to be amazing for you is that same partner that will be a turn off for another person, so it is largely dependent on what every individual want for himself or herself."
@prettyjules158, got the following answer from someone else;
"there never could be a right partner for anyone, and the thought of a right partner is what throws many off balance."

She continued...

"People who want Mr right as their partners most times always may end up settling down with some of the worst partners."

@prettyjules158, in her own conclusion: ""Yes, there is a right one, we sometimes get confused because of the testimonies of some people who are married and because of the challenges of their marriages."""

My Own Perspective
Humans are not created equally...
Hence, there can't be a perfect creature... But of course there are "right" partners; "Mr right" for female and "miss right" for male, talking about relationships.
"Right"based on individual taste. However, based on "virtues", the "right" might be lacking/lagging.

So like the second perspective stated, searching for "mr/miss right" most eventually leads to the wrong choice.
I think "virtues" should instead be searched for.

Even those in "seem perfect" relationships too have their own challenges...
They are able to sustain and maintain their togetherness based on the fact that; right from onset, they have individually concluded to learn to "do with" their respective imperfections/weak points.

So, there would always be "mr/miss right" if mr/miss are in quest of "miss/mr virtuous" and not solely focusing on "right" based on their tastes

Not all Mr/Miss rights are actually a good husband/wife materials!... Take heed!

I know am inexperienced, due to my little experience about relationships.

I am Senator DANBARUBA, a.k.a @toyinbaruba
Thanks for reading

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