Keep Balance in relationship
Both of these feelings will grow and aggravate, even if you won’t notice from the start. In a relationship, often we offer something hoping that we will receive the same back. If we don’t receive it, we give our relationship another change and so on. At some point, the respect you have for your partner disappears.
Love becomes destructive, affection starts to fade away and those beautiful moments that you two once had are happening rarely or not at all.
And that’s when you feel incredibly unhappy, that’s when pain appears. You swear to yourself that you’ll never let yourself make the same mistake again, but in a few moments you run back to your partner. It’s sad that most people live with the illusion that there will be a feedback.
Most of the times, there won’t be one and all of the energy you consumed won’t be appreciated.
To love is one thing. To know how to express your love is another. I have to be honest with you, I don't really know how to express my love, I know that and I want to correct this problem.
A lot of relationships will last longer if both partners would know how to express their feelings. Because this thing doesn’t happen, many couples suffer from lack of harmony.
They start having emotional changes, they become more pessimistic and passive. Motivation disappears. And the worst thing is that the ones involved in a relationship like this shut down from their partner, but also outside of the relationship.
It’s hard to create balance in a relationship. Theoretically, everything is clear, but when it comes to putting it in practice, things tend to go crazy. The best advice is to think clearly and decide if you want to continue the relationship. If you have doubts, you will never be determined enough to make positive changes.
Love is a stronger affinity dependent on the feelings of the lovers, making them more loyal and faithful that love is kindness,
The truth is, there is no perfect relationship. Yeah, keeping the balance is the goal.
Be aware that ups and downs are inevitable. Patience is a virtue that is necessary. If you're thinking of balancing your love to your partner, you got it wrong!
A true love in my own experience is endurance up to the end. Either you love your partner much more than he/she loves you or vice versa. Equal love between you and your partner is impossible to happen. If you can accept the truth that love is priceless, you will be in peace.
Sending my love to you!
Mainly rely on the expectation. When the expectation doesn't come to a balance level, things start to go wrong and one side will tend to overthink and start to getting mad over a tiny matter. It's not that easy to manage a relationship seriously~ And communication always is the key.
Finding that balance is hard. But is possible to have a lasting relationship where one person consistently gives more than the other?
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Love should be so simple and we always make it so hard to do it! I know we aren't perfect, because we're humans, but if you TRULY love someone and your partner TRULY loves you back, it shouldn't be so hard to keep a balance.
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Keep Balance in relationship RIGHT
The right way to do it is not to give anything that you're not willing to give for free, if you're expecting something in return then you shouldn't give it, work on yourself and enhance your life so that its plentiful enough so that you want to share your blessings, instead of haggling for other peoples time or affection. When you this, people alike will find you. 💕
The problem is giving and expecting somethinh in return. Love can be given freely without expecting anything in return. You give love because you feel it, cause you must. Love is the only feeling that should have no reason.