Remember who you are and who you depend on

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Remember Who You Are and Who You Depend On

In a world that often tries to define us by where we come from, what we own, or how much we have achieved, it’s easy to lose sight of something very important: who we truly are and who we depend on.

For me, this reminder runs deeper than just a motivational quote or a passing thought. I come from a background that many might describe as humble, or even low. Growing up, nothing came easy. Every little achievement was carved out of a space where most people had already given up hope. Yet somehow, even in the darkest days, I knew one thing: my story was not going to end where it started.

There is something powerful about remembering your roots. It's not about holding onto pain or failure, but about grounding yourself in reality. I knew from an early age that if I was going to make anything meaningful out of my life, I had to stay true to who I was — not who the world expected me to be.

Who am I?

I am a dreamer, yes. But I am also a fighter. I am someone who believes that despite the odds, a better life is possible. I am someone who understands that comfort is not a given — it’s earned through perseverance, sacrifice, and faith.

Coming from a background where opportunities were rare and struggles were plenty, I learned not to expect handouts. I learned that if I wanted more, I had to become more. That realization wasn't easy. It came with heartbreak, disappointment, and moments when I questioned if all the hard work was even worth it.

But still, I pressed on.

And who do I depend on?

First and foremost, I depend on God. Not in the casual way people throw His name around, but in a real, intimate way that comes from knowing that without Him, I am nothing. Life has a way of stripping you down, of breaking your pride and illusions. And when all the noise fades, you’re left facing the truth: you can’t do this alone.

Depending on God doesn’t mean sitting back and waiting for miracles to fall from the sky. It means trusting His plan even when I can’t see it. It means working with everything I’ve got, putting in the late nights and the early mornings, and still understanding that ultimately, He is the one who holds my future.

Secondly, I depend on myself.

That might sound strange at first — how can I say I depend on God and also on myself? But to me, it’s perfectly clear. God gives us strength, wisdom, and opportunities, but we have to move. We have to act. Faith without action is dead. And action without faith is empty.

I have learned to bet on myself, even when others didn’t. I have learned to believe in my own worth, even when the world tried to tell me I wasn't enough. I know that no one owes me anything — not success, not kindness, not even understanding. The life I want is the life I have to build, brick by brick, prayer by prayer.

Why does this matter?

Because forgetting who you are and who you depend on is the fastest way to lose yourself in this chaotic world. When you don't know who you are, you start accepting whatever labels people throw at you. You let circumstances define you. You let failure convince you that you are a failure, instead of just someone who has failed and can still rise.

When you don't remember who you depend on, you start leaning on shaky foundations — on people, systems, and trends that were never built to sustain you. And when they fall apart (because they always do), you feel like your whole world is crumbling too.

But when you are rooted in your true identity and anchored in your true source of strength, you become unshakable.

You can walk through fire and not be burned.

You can be betrayed, disappointed, heartbroken — and still rise.

You can start with nothing and still end with everything that matters.

This journey isn't easy.

There are days when the dreams seem too far away. Days when you wonder if you’re just fooling yourself. Days when quitting feels so tempting. But then I remember: I didn’t come this far just to come this far. I remember who I am — someone who refuses to settle for a life that’s less than what God promised. I remember who I depend on — a God who never lies and a self that refuses to quit.

And that keeps me going.

To anyone reading this who feels like giving up, remember: where you come from does not define where you are going. Your background is your backdrop, not your destiny. Your struggles are your training ground, not your prison.

Hold fast to who you are. Dig deep into the foundation of your faith. Depend on God for direction, strength, and purpose. Depend on yourself for resilience, discipline, and effort.

The world may not see your worth yet. That’s okay. You must see it first.

Stay true. Stay grounded. Stay hungry. And above all, stay faithful.

Your story is still being written. And if you stay the course, it will be a story worth telling.