Today I would like to talk about this pathology, being unfortunately stuck in an individual with such traits I thought it appropriate to document, not being psychologic my information will certainly be fragmented and scarce, also having been documented trivially via search on the internet can not say with certainty the veracity of all the information.
There is talk of a disease that most afflicts men and that is part of our Western culture.
How to recognize a narcissist?
The narcissist is harmful to his partner and sometimes to himself, despite his attitudes is a person who suffers immensely.
The narcissist initially appears to be very charming, usually endowed with a very fine intelligence, he studies his "prey" well in order to create a character that may please them. They exalt and adore the victim, making her feel special, unique, incredible and understood. They run fast and often already make great promises from the first meetings, they are super lovers without even knowing the victim.
Understanding, however, is not real is only the result of careful study, the narcissist does not have developed empathic skills.Right away, they will proceed to a process of devaluation of the victim, making her/him feel lost and belittling it with critiques and apparently innocuous affirmations.
Their goal, also suffering from them, is to undermine the victim 's self - esteem. They themselves have low self-esteem because they have never really known each other and hiself , denying their own self and hiding it in what appears to be a disproportionate ego from the outside, often clad in an arrogant and arrogant character. Speaking of themselves, they tend to exaggerate and feel great and superior.
They are the best but they are destroyed inside.
The narcissist lives with attentions and not having created in him a profound inner discomfort, he nourishes himself with attentions and for destroying the other, he does not tolerate that one looks at anyone outside of him, must be at the center of everything, constantly.
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Generally the victim is a sensitive person with characteristics that the narcissist would like for himself.
It will slowly try to isolate it from friends and acquaintances, it will diminish it, it will lead it to get away from everything and everyone just to follow him, creating a bond of morbid dependence.
The victim will have difficulty leaving and immediately realizing the trap where he has fallen, the narcissist will play on the guilt and how he will feel a departure will return to be sweet and seductive in order to retain the object of his desire in his arms.
The narcissist hates to do without his spectator has therefore difficulty in letting go of the victim.
Pathological narcissism is a pathology that is still little known, some theories even invalidate it, citing these behaviors and symptoms to other pathologies and not to the specific one of narcissism.