Be careful when choosing a scorpion for yourself

Hello, Good morning to you all

I will write about something that unfortunately appears constantly on police news and that is something very, very, very complicated within our society. I will talk about the union between 2 personality profiles in a marital relationship, whether it be, dating, engagement or marriage (or even a relationship where the 2 get together without these previous ratings).

So, you've probably seen cases related to abuse within the relationship. Generally, they are men who have a more sexist profile or something worse (psychopathy) and use it to curtailing the freedom of women. I usually say, because the news does not address cases of women who abuse men, because more than 99% of men are ashamed to denounce, because it is considered a great "attack on manhood" to be dominated or physically assaulted by a woman in the Relationship. As a psychologist, I understand these things. In another post, I even think about addressing this issue, but it will not be today.

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I want to talk about relationships where man usurps any right his wife has and is very aggressive with her. You've probably seen cases where women are killed in a marital relationship. I began to think about it after seeing the case of a public official from the south of the country, if I am not mistaken, lawyer, killed by the boyfriend (or husband) who was a businessman, inside his apartment. Here's the thing, I will not expose the report not to expose the victim, however, for everything I have read and for what I studied in this area, besides, unfortunately, have already dealt with people like that, men with a tendency to psychopathy have 100% chance of being abusive in relation Intercourse. Not abusive as ordinary macho men who do something that is within our culture, but abusive in the sense of detonating the same woman.

I see they usually get involved with two types of women. Or she's a very submissive woman, who's totally dependent on someone to make decisions and gets that kind of man to stay in front of her all the time. Generally this results in a union in which there may not be many fights because of the total submission of the woman, however, she is in a constant state of "prison". You can't leave without him, you can't talk to anyone but him, you don't take care of the money, you have no decision that he doesn't have to give the last word, which means you're a slave!!!!!!!!

Source: http://www.cadaminuto.com.br/noticia/310826/2017/10/03/relacionamento-abusivo-o-avesso-do-amor

On the other hand, there are women who have clear traces of narcissism who choose these profiles to be their spouses.

Usually, they're beautiful women who stay with bandit men for protection. They have clear tendency to be perverse narcissists, using evil to manipulate and usually seek psychopaths to defend them, because, psychopath is very attracted by beautiful woman to display it as a trophy. The problem with that is that the scorpion stings both the others and the woman itself, that is, it can attack people who come close to it, expelling everyone closely, especially men, cut off the family ties that it possesses, friends and, above all, will attack That woman too. That was the case of the murdered lawyer..... These types of men usually like to control everything and be first in everything and, for that, do not measure efforts. They love to send and have high status among their group.

The media portrayed her as his victim. Of course she was a victim though, I've been reading the entire report and saw that they were in constant conflict. I imagine that in these conflicts he should have threatened her, or physical aggression or even death. They fought over jealousy.

She was a very jealous girl and was always trying to control his footsteps. According to his speech in a story, he said that she was very jealous and everything created fights. He said he didn't lose his mind that day, he'd already lost it a long time ago. This girl's family said that he was coarse and quarrelsome, that is, he already possessed characteristics that could put him as a threat. Therefore, for what reason a girl in the house of 40 years, not of the 20, who is no longer naïve, chose a spouse with these characteristics to have on the side?

Beware of the angelic aura that perverse narcissists possess. They are usually beautiful, because they take care of the appearance (a clear trait of narcissist is to take care of the aesthetic), they have a beautiful smile, they are very friendly and when they want, they can be very charming to manipulate others. Or engage with a naïve man, who they deem to be a sucker (in their vision) who will be their doormat to pay the bills and suffer their orders and discharges or, engage with a psychopath who would detonate others by quenching their own desire for violence. As a woman is not usually violent, for cultural and physical matters, they choose one of these guys to be their source of pleasure and "gains" being violent in various ways with others, because they make their wish to torture people and benefit from Others somehow coercive. However, this violence that they deem to be directed only to others, 1 hour will turn against them, as several of these young women who are murdered by the spouse.

I put this text because, after everything I have read in these areas of psicólogicos profiles, I can not see these girls as victims as they are reported by the media or society. They have a great contribution in their destiny, for choosing tormentors to relate.

Note: I say that young women who contribute to this kind of future are not naïve young people who are allowed to be taken by the initial sympathy of these men, but young women who have similar traits to theirs.

I would very much like to know your views on this, especially the women who read this text. It will be very important to me!

Ps: Someone felt bad looking at the picture of the Scorpion??? I felt anxious when choosing the photo. Too ugly and too mean, God!!!!!

Thank you all and Good morning!!!!!