Do you believe in love at first sight? How do you define TRUE love? Is it important to have healthy sex relationship in order to develop true love?

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Its been long that we've been hearing that statement " Love at first sight" . Before now, I used to be part of those that talk about it but when I came to understand what love truly is I knew the statement was an "ERROR". I do not believe in love at first sight.

True Love is an emotion that originate from the deepest part of the heart. It has no blemmish, it's always unconditional. True love never grow old. It takes time for true love to build. Its a gradual process that doesn't come overnight.

Let me give some examples/questions that will differentiate true love from love at first sight.

Assuming you met a girl for the first time and you develop love at first sight but unfortunately you couldn't have her digits and lost her from there. How much will you think of her? Days, weeks, months or years?.

On the other hand, you met a girl, you became friends, you fell in love i mean you develop authentic love for her and she disappeared just like that. How worried will you be?

If we will have to be candid, the truth of the matter is we will be far worried in the case of the second question than the first. If you claim you have first sight love what was the reason behind it. Beauty, shape, or what have you?. The only thing that happens at first sight is admiration and first time likeness mostly because of appearance.this is really mistaken for love at first sight. I don't believe it, its a scam.a mere talk of the tongue. For Love to fully develop, TIME is involved.

Healthy sex relationship is very important but it is not a yarstic for developing true love. I'm not disputing the fact that healthy sex relationship isn't something that should be present in a relationship but true love is far beyond only sex. I have seen couples that boast of their spouse among friends astoching sex matters but later got separated. Why? Simply because that alone couldn't hold the relationship. When we talk about true love, it has no measure. In the absence of healthy sex, true love will stay and weather the storm with you. Find possible solution for you to be happy together. True love is uncondition.

Thanks.

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