Dear @mariu.espinoza
Finally I've managed to find time to read your previously bookmarked publication.
I must admit, that until recently I didn't know much about asperger condition and I've learned little bit from @joseph1956
I've been wondering, if it's easier or more difficult for people with Aspergers to work and communicate online (comparing to doing same in real life)?
social relationships, hugs, kisses, skills that autistic people are unable to manage..
I also wonder - how does it feel to build life with someone who suffer those conditions. It must be very challenging at times.
Thanks for posting within PH. Upvote on the way :)
Yours, Piotr
Greetings, it is not until now that I can calmly read the comments of my articles, since I hardly had time to publish them, the children finished school and homeschooling is down, so I can read my readers, and I know that you commented on this article some time ago and it is not until now that I can respond to it.
He asked me if it is easier or more difficult for people with Asperger's to work and communicate online (compared to doing the same in real life)."
I answer: it is more difficult, in spite of having a capacity of speech, comprehension and vocabulary management in the case of the two that accompany me Elias and Jose the lack of communication that is not the same as talking affects each one from their point of view logically reasons what they want to express not always achieve a fluid communication, sometimes you just have to "send to hell and that's it" so there is no discussion (the real life thing that I can not understand or link to your comment).
I also wonder what it's like to build a life with someone who suffers from those conditions. It must be very challenging at times.
To begin with, we do not suffer, we live this condition.
Fortunately we have had to live it in perhaps the best way to be able to cope with it, high-functioning autism. (Other autisms are much more demanding).
It feels.... difficult, joyful, light, strong. Sad, happy, it's like anyone else, only with a certain way of seeing life, (I'm talking about my case) living with Jose is an adventure of discovering autism from an adult perspective, of someone who learned to survive in the world without knowing why he was "WEIRD", very different from Elias who you show him the world and try to make it easy for him, but they are people who process concepts, experiences in a very different way than the rest of us (neurotypical). It makes me want to kill him (Jose)? yes sometimes hahahahahahahahahahahah but who doesn't sometimes kill his partner.
Challenging yes, but we have achieved in better gear to cope with this family in highs, lows and I always say it, Jose is my best complement, he has made me a better person.
I hope that these answers, late but nice to do so, will answer some of your concerns, always at your service.
Mariu
thanks @mariu.espinoza