The Importance of Letting go...

in #powerhousecreatives5 years ago (edited)


Letting go gives us freedom and freedom is the only condition for happiness. - Nhat Hanh


There is a very big difference between giving up and letting go. Giving up is an act of defeat. Letting go is an act of self-preservation. When you are faced with life's emotional challenges, hurts and angers, letting go is simply the only way you will ever be able to move onward in peace. When you hang on to all the negative stuff, it weighs you down, breaks you down and depletes you. If you ever take a look at somebody who has hung onto anger and bitterness for many years, you can actually "SEE" it in them. They always look so weathered. It literally ages them on a physical level eventually, because it destroys you from the inside out. One famous example of this, I have always thought... is Eminem. Now don't get me wrong, I am a huge fan of his and I really respect his monumental achievements... but he has (from what I can see anyway) just never let go of the bitterness towards his past... and it shows! You have to learn to accept the way things have unfolded. Breathe it in, and then let it out. It may not be very easy in the beginning... but just take baby steps... and one day, sooner than you think, you will look at yourself and realise that it doesn't affect you as much anymore.

PHOTO TAKEN WITH MY SAMSUNG GALAXY NOTE 9

#powerhousecreatives #share2steem #love #photography #ulog #inspiration #motivation #happy #lovelife #gratitude #lovemylife #grateful #quote #positivevibes #positivequotes #intentionalliving #focus #life

line1.png

EARN STEEM - AUTO-POST TO STEEMIT FROM INSTAGRAM

CLICK HERE TO SET IT UP


text15.png

JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM TOO


Until next time...
Much Love from Cape Town, South Africa xxx

Steemit logo Jaynielea.png

Jaynie.gif

Posted from Instagram via Share2Steem

line1.png

WHO ARE THE

Power House Creatives Logos FINAL_float.png

The Power House Creatives is a discord community of individuals who are committed to producing content which adds value across multiple platforms. We are STRONGLY focused on supporting our fellow members individual growth as well as offering support to those that are still trying to get ahead. We are a CLOSE KNIT community of individuals, each with our own strengths, passions and input, yet ALL willing to go the extra mile for our family members... WHY? - because, simply put - we CARE about one another and MANY HANDS make light work! - THAT is what FAMILY is about! - To infinity and beyond...

line1.png

INTERESTED IN SUPPORTING CURATION INITIATIVES?

@theluvbug regularly supports the Steemit community with upvotes and resteems of great content which is really adding value to this platform, but in order to grow and be able to offer MORE SUPPORT, @theluvbug needs your help - with upvotes and resteems of the latest curation announcements on that profile.

Sort:  

Hi @jaynie!

Your post was upvoted by @steem-ua, new Steem dApp, using UserAuthority for algorithmic post curation!
Your UA account score is currently 5.334 which ranks you at #715 across all Steem accounts.
Your rank has dropped 6 places in the last three days (old rank 709).

In our last Algorithmic Curation Round, consisting of 249 contributions, your post is ranked at #64.

Evaluation of your UA score:
  • You've built up a nice network.
  • The readers appreciate your great work!
  • Good user engagement!

Feel free to join our @steem-ua Discord server

Enjoyed your post.

"You cannot embrace anything here, now, or even in the future while holding onto the past. Remember it? Yes. Learn from it? Yes. But don't let it weigh you down or be a road block in your personal path towards joy."

Namaste, JaiChai

Difference is huge.
Give up is easy.... Letting go is a tough and painful challenge...
Thanks for this post!

very true! Thank you for your input :)

Funny, I had just this conversation with someone the other day. It's difficult but doable. And very liberating

Posted using Partiko Android

Hey Jaynie. Totally agree. Great article. As a guy who's been living out of a backpack for almost 13 years now, I can totally relate. What was least expected to read about what you right is that holding onto bitterness ages you. I've let go of so much, walked away from bitterness anger, I got into meditation and yoga at a young age and guess what most people can't believe I'm 36. They usually guess something like 28. So wow, you hit the mark on many levels with this. Wishing you the best from Pai Thailand. -Dan "World Travel Pro!"

Thank you so much @world-travel-pro! Yes it is amazing how our internal affects our external! Sounds like you are living a life of true freedom and bliss! Thank for stopping by and take care on your travels xxx

Thanks for the kind words @jaynie. Life is good! Have a great day! -Dan

Life is most CERTAINLY good!!! hehe :) You have an amazing day too!

This is quite a very touching post. Oftentimes we are so engrossed with the negative feeling that we don't see the good side of things. Thanks for reminding us about this. :)

Posted using Partiko Android

My pleasure sweetie! Glad you enjoyed it! xxx

Everything has its time and place so we must let go sometimes for things to happen. @jaynie

Very true @cryptopie! Lovely to see you stop by! I hope you are well xxx

Congratulations @jaynie! You have completed the following achievement on the Steem blockchain and have been rewarded with new badge(s) :

You published a post every day of the week

Click here to view your Board
If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word STOP

To support your work, I also upvoted your post!

Support SteemitBoard's project! Vote for its witness and get one more award!

So many people could use little nuggets like this, and they would be much happier.
Your take on Giving up vs Letting go, is a wonderful way to come to terms with something you really no longer have control of, and probably never had any control of, from the beginning.

Thank you so much for your positive input xxx

Hello @jaynie, thank you for sharing this creative work! We just stopped by to say that you've been upvoted by the @creativecrypto magazine. The Creative Crypto is all about art on the blockchain and learning from creatives like you. Looking forward to crossing paths again soon. Steem on!

Coin Marketplace

STEEM 0.29
TRX 0.11
JST 0.033
BTC 63458.69
ETH 3084.37
USDT 1.00
SBD 3.99