Walking Away From Self-Destruction
Do we like chaos in the world? No. Do we need chaos in the world? Maybe we do because we aren't doing things right, and we need to learn the wrong ways of doing things in order to veritably know what not to do.
A period of mistakes for us to learn from and not repeat might be necessary for us to know what not to do. Chaos teaches. The darkness we create forces us to wallow and dwell in what we created, recognize it for what it is, and remember not to go there again. Then we can head towards the light and away from the darkness.
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This is how many people who engage in self-destructive behavior act, like narcotics addicts or people with other addictions. They create the chaos of their lives but finally get out of the self-inflicted suffering they make for themselves. They need to be smacked hard by reality, to suffer, to fall to such a dark low point where they hit rock bottom in order to bounce back up and finally head in the right direction, from the darkness to the light.
Is humanity being self-destructive like a drug addict, pushing itself into darkness, chaos and self-inflicted suffering? I thin so.
But there is a way out: truth. Face the truth of the current condition. See reality as it is, not masked by positivity and rosy colored glasses. See the darkness, demons, evils, immoralities, wrongs and mistakes of our way of living. Failure to recognize them means we keep living in them.
The history of humanity is a bumpy ride of ups and downs. Maybe we are on our way up, taking more steps forward than back at this time, it's hard to tell. We need to keep history alive. History of our intergenerational memory; a memory that persists beyond the lifetime of a single individual human.
If we don't remember our past mistakes, we are doomed to repeat them again, and again, and again... We need to be mindful of our past in order to not repeat the errors of our ways going into the future. This applies at the individual personal level and the collective level of humanity.
Chaos isn't necessary. We can learn from the mistakes of others in the past collective history of humanity, and not have to freshly repeat those mistakes ourselves as individuals or as a species.
But, unfortunately, many don't have a long vision of the past in order to learn from it. Patterns keep repeating when they don't need to. We can do better.
Failure to look at the past, learn from it, and do better, means we keep ourselves locked in a cage of our own making, creating chaos and self-inflicted suffering. We need to look towards the past, learn from mistakes, and then we can protect and guard over our future in wisdom of not repeating the same mistakes and patterns of behavior. This is how we free ourselves from the darkness and prison we have created, open the gate, and step into the light of a better tomorrow.
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I like your point about hitting rock bottom. For me my rock bottom point was being broke 3 years ago in a crappy apartment and not having A/C in the hot summers. That was the ultimate chaos in my life. It hardened my character. Since then I have established a solid finance career and am crushing it in my early 20s. If it wasn't for that experience, I probably would of been a drifter.
Cool. I'm not rich, but I get by not broke ;) My time has been invested in other things than a career, a pursuit of learning and truth ;)
Good post, a message repeated throughout history.
Yeah, same old story. One of these posts you make I will quit being a cynic (maybe). I bit the bullet and voted for you for witness, not something I typically do as I don't know who many are, and some of the few I do seem pretty shady. I hope if you get the position you want you don't find yourself identifying with Serpico.
LOL, thanks :) Serpico, as an insider being taken down by my 'compatriots'? Hehe. I've been to the mid 30's as a witness, but that didn't last due to my server having issues. I was the #1 top earner on Steem for a month or so back in the winter of 2017, but I got taken down by some whales who were witnesses... flagged over and over because they didn't like my content, me or who supported me :/ My 15 minutes of fame and success are over ;)
Or grown as those who value principles and strength are drawn to you and the message you have. As to the Serpico comment, guess you have already been there done that, lol.
Indeed we must learn from our past and occasionally be reminded of it. But the truth must be spoken and the people need to know. History books and news articles often end up being one-sided propaganda and not the truth of the past. One must have the desire to know the truth and the motivation to search for it thanks @krnel
Right on :D
The most common is to tend to "disappear" by little desire to socialize, fear of hurting, "shit", not wanting "nothing", to show fragility, fear that certain people can hurt you to be more prone to subsidence by a minimum comment, etc. The truth is that who suffers in the third person, it is difficult to understand and, until looking for a reason (sometimes, can be founded) also costs in better stages. But the body does not ask you to want to show yourself in those times and you seclude yourself in your own prison of pain and loneliness. We all know that it is very pernicious.
Unfortunately self-destruction is like that but despite this, we have to fight it and talk, externalize what you can with the people closest to you (as much as possible, giving you courage and with very close people who can understand you) because it helps you to vent and not lock yourself up, and not for that, you will make others around you suffer more, just the opposite, making them worry even more.
"The darkness we create forces us to wallow and dwell in what we created, recognize it for what it is, and remember not to go there again. Then we can head towards the light and away from the darkness." This really spoke to me because I find myself in a period of darkness and anger that I felt I could not escape from.
Analyse the situation to find the root cause of how it occurred, and that can shine a light on the solution to get out. Good luck.
learning from the mistakes of the past is a sure way to become free of such mistakes. The problem with humans is that, we are not discipline enough to know what to do at the right time and place and what not to do. Thank you@krnel for this insightful knowledge.
I can agree. We need to discipline ourselves in understanding how to act, what is right and what is wrong morally, and what is optimally right and detrimentally wrong in various situations ;)
Great post, I personally feel that when we are having depressive feelings or massive anxiety day to day, it’s just a sign to force us out of the situation. For instance, a message from ourselves to ourselves saying ‘you are doing the wrong thing’.
This could be work related, relationship, or being around toxic people. For me, it was not getting the most out of myself. I’m still figuring it out but I’ve adressed my feelings much better now.
Learning from the past is very important, just as looking towards the brighter future, but the present is all there is and we can learn to love the right now :)
Thanks for the post :) peace!
The present becomes the past as soon as it happens. The present is moving towards the future. The future is where we are headed. The future is where our vision is at for the way and path we take to get somewhere. The future turns into the present, and the present turns into the past. We exist in the present that becomes the past as soon as it happens, but shifts into the future each moment ;)
You have to bearsome chaos within, if you want to create a dancing star - Nietzsche.
I like the chaos - it leads me to a wild form of creaticity, also depression can be chaoa for me... The transformation is relief.
Humans naturally have a tendency to act out in a self-destructive way. The ones who do not, still have it in them but just are better actors.
Or... you can work to not act on those self-destructive tendencies by being aware they are there... as opposed to simply being an actor ;)
It makes me remember what my mother told me, nobody learns by the head of another, I mean, everyone makes their mistakes to learn, unfortunately the human being is like that, he must go and try the bad and then avoid it ...
Trying the bad is not required. No one has to try to murder in order to not do it ;)
that's true, but there are people who you warn and do not listen to, I do not know why the experience of the other is not enough to improve