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Many of us think abusive relationship is when a man beats a woman up and maybe end up killing her someday, right? That is a misconception, because abuse is mainly about power and controlling a message, so you don’t necessarily have to be beaten up to know a partner is abusive. Also an abuser who could be a man or woman will often make the victim feel as if it’s his or her fault, he or she manipulates, creates confusion and eventually wrongly places the blame on the victim. Most times, a victim of abuse can’t clearly see that he or she’s a victim. that is, until someone shines a light on the situation.

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Most abuse victims are ‘conditioned’ to believe they are the cause of the mistreatment, but the truth is, a victim of abuse never causes the mistreatment; the abuser decides his/her course of action.

In most abusive relationships, control can masquerade as “protection” or a violent reaction could be ‘rightly’ labeled as a response to “being hurt” until something goes terribly wrong. Even cruelty sometimes, can be called “playfulness” by an abuser and the madness continues until the victim realizes and get out or someone comes to the rescue.

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Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot

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I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay.

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Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore. And you might not understand why now but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out.

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It is better to be alone and be happy than to be in a miserable relationship