My Evergreen Playlist: Why does it hurt so bad?

My evergreen playlist song for today is by Whitney Houston and the song, "why does it hurt so bad" was recorded in 1995 for the movie "Waiting to Exhale" starring, Whitney Houston and Angela Bassett.

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The theme of the movie was about relationship both platonic and intimate between four friends. They were in it through the tears, the hurt, the pain, the joy, the laughter, the love, the hate and the demises. They lived through it a d came out on the other side.

I loved the movie so much because, it chronicles what truly happens behind the doors of a happy home, friendship, relationship and even business. There is always that moment when it all doesn't make sense and you find yourself questioning every action taken.

I Feel Blessed!

There are stuffs that just makes us wonder why we have to hurt so bad when all we are supposed to be getting is joy. Why so much heartbreak and sorrow and death when life holds infinite levels of joy and love? I sometimes feel the heavy rain falls are the tears of those who are going though the harsh realities of life by no fault of theirs.

Nothing is certain in life and nothing is cast on stone. No one has the power to determine how they turn out or if they should be hurt or not, but we sure have the power to love like its the best thing to happen to the world.

The most horrible and painful experience anyone would ever have in life is mostly through a breakup in an intimate relationship and death. The experience is so sad that, the heart seldom heals from them. Immortality is not guaranteed anyone and till date, scientist are still searching for a way out of death. Will there be one? Can anything, science or traditional stop pain?

I want to be immortal for sure not by physically living forever but, through the simple acts of love I lived for on the face of planet earth. If you have love, you will live forever.

Someone somewhere is hurting because they failed to tell someone how much they cared. Someone is sad because they lost out in a relationship due to their inability to truly appreciate their partners. Someone is crying because they did all they could and still lost out. Someone is sad they didn't get the time to tell that person how he/she made them feel and now it's too late. Someone is hurting inside and there is really nothing they can do.

Don't wait for it to get too late. The time is now and nothing is quite as great as being in time with time. I cannot really tell you "why it hurts so bad, but I can tell you it gets better after the hurt."