I'd love to encourage anybody who may be going through severe, difficult and painful challenges, that may even be experiencing the traumatic effect on the mind, that they must not give in to obstacles that besieges them no matter what. Even though they might feel like giving up, they need to ignore the feelings and do what needs to be done.
We all need to do all that it takes to move forward every time. We cannot afford to be static and just observe others. We are players not spectators, so we need to improve our game. Sometimes people would criticize you, call you names and bring you down, don't be deterred one bit, keep pushing hard, you'll be amazed at what will be accomplished in the process.
Never ever give up. It's a principle of life that works. Remember "Winners never quit and quitters never win". To achieve the success you and your family and friends would be proud of, you need to hold firmly to your life's purpose and dreams. Keep shining !