Poisonous Thoughts That Can Ruin Your Life and Destroy Your Dreams - Starting Today, Be Wary of Everything That Comes to Your Mind!
Hi Steemians!
A thought is at first an idea conceived in the creative process of our mind. These thoughts are gusts of wind in the beginning, but each grow to be unique burdens that we have to bear in life, for a thought cannot be killed; not once it has made a home in your brain.
Not every thought is necessarily decent or pleasant. Sometimes we come up with ideas that even repel our own selves. Some thoughts are useful and constructive, while others can be devastatingly harmful and fallacious.
There only remains one question: How can you tell the difference between a useful thought backed up by reason and a harmful one backed up by unreliable emotions?
To understand the nature of a thought is a difficult and challenging process. Some ideas are so inherently hardwired into our mind and thought process that we cannot easily trace their origins back to where they formed. For instance, imagine a person who believes that life is cruel.
That person truly believes that with absolute surety, regardless of what you might have to say to dissuade him from that belief. Because for that person, nothing rings truer than the idea that life is cruel.
Why? Because that person has lived most of his life growing that conception; that life is cruel.
The seed has had plenty of time to find its deep roots at the core of the existence of said person. Now you may begin to understand why ideas and thoughts can be so dangerous and destructive.
Because at the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if your thought is right or wrong, or if it is backed up by imperial evidence and reason. What matters is how much you have spent growing it in your mind. That thought becomes your reality, regardless of its validity and legitimacy.
Some people fall into the trap of misconception. For instance, a person might think that a life well lived is one in which you spend every hour of every day doing what you love. But if realism has anything to say in the matter, sometimes you have to do things that you do not necessarily enjoy in order to arrive at the place that you want to be.
We have already discussed the greatest parasite on the face of this society; the idea that we are all victims of fate or chance. That life is not fair, and that the people in our life are in any way to blame for the things that happen to us. This is also another misconception of the mind.
These delusions first start as an innocent idea that you may entertain for a while, but if given enough time and attention, they can all turn to parasites that haunt you forever. You may reach a point when no possible argument of any sane merit can help you find your way to the light again.
That is why you need to be mindful of the thoughts that shape in your mind. Do not ignore or neglect them. Do not fall into the trap of thinking that they are not important or that they will go away.
If a thought is bothering you or giving you sleepless nights, face it head on and try to find your way out of the darkness using reason and solid evidence. If you feel like a thought is having a negative impact on your mood and your conscious-self, deal with it and eradicate that thought and its impact as fast as possible.
Thinking is the first step towards enlightenment, but poisonous thoughts are seeds of doubt and fear that will in time ruin your life and destroy your dreams.
Starting today, be wary of everything that comes to your mind!
A BIG HUG!
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Our mind is full of thoughts of good and bad both types. We need to use all the positive thoughts in productive direction and it will help us to grow. On the other hand about negative thoughts we need to ignore and should not work on them. You rightly said that Not every thought is necessarily decent or pleasant. Sometimes we come up with ideas that even repel our own selves it's our call to use our thoughts in positive direction. Thanks for the nice post @chbartist
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Sir, you are right. There are many types of thoughts in our mind. Some give us pain and some come to feel the strength in the coming time and this is very important.
Thank you.
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You are right about the thoughts that come. Thoughts release dopamine. We can become addicted to certain types of thoughts. If we spend our time thinking negative thoughts, we are training our mind to focus on the negative.
True friend @chbartist,All life is molded in the form of his thoughts. All life is manifested in accordance with internal thoughts. According to the reason, it is a definite rule of nature that the person is in the same way as the outside, A lot of the high or low status within man can be found by looking at its external appearance
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The mind or thoughts, is the terrain that the enemy likes the most, to attack people ... a small idea or a small thought-feeling that stays begins to do its part in the mind, and to work on that even though we think that has no effect on our lives ... that is why, the importance of taking care of our thoughts, our minds ... so that then that little negative thought does not become a monster that takes over our lives.
As a man thinks, in his heart, so he is. My mother taught me that "thoughts" are things. And you must answer those things. In other words, when a negative thought comes to you, you must fight against it. You cannot let certain thoughts linger in your mind. You can't just give in to it. You then must anwer that thought with God's Word and truth.
It's a very good post. Sir, you are right that there are many ideas in our mind that always keep upset and there are many who inspire us to move forward, just waiting for us to recognize them and The bad ideas should not have been allowed to move forward, we should end up or not think much about it.
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Positive thoughts insight positive actions so it is great to resolve negative issues quickly to eliminate the drag that comes with negative thoughts.
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There is a saying in my country - if you killed a person in your mind, you are a murderer.
I learned it from the childhood how harmful our negative thought is for our life. And that learning is a blessing.
I also often give a thought to do wrong to some certain people, who may not hurt me personally but in a bigger way they sucks. But those negative thought does not help me to get rid of my problem. Rather effects on my other thought passively.
Your words helped me to realize some other pros and cons of it.
Thanks for your writing.
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That is quite a saying... Makes me think a lot of my past thoughts, this is very deep though... Will take this into consideration the next time my mind sways.
That's the spirit. Keep going.
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@chbartist Why not ? Because our mind work on our thoughts. What we think and how we think ? Good thoughts are like panacea for our life but bad thoughts can easily ruin our life . And reaction of bad thoughts is very fast than adopting good thoughts.
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I remember reading something many years ago, I want to say it was St Augustine or something, where he mentioned a process to discern good thoughts (from God, in his case) and 'bad'.
Many years later, when I was no longer Catholic but studying buddhism I found it interesting that the process was very much like what we now call 'mindfullness'
Well said sir thoughts are the origen. Everything depends on thoughts, an idea could be billion dollars idea. We have to always think positive and keep our mind in out from negativity.
Thoughts are directly related to success. If we think negative then nobody can help us to achieve our Target or goal. Be positive and let positive.
Thanks for this awesome article
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