60-Second Plan to Reconnect with your Spouse Part 1
CREATE POSITIVE EXPERIENCES
Your spouse is checked out of your marriage…
Heart sinks. Throat goes dry.
“I don't want to work on us anymore... I'm done…”
You love your spouse. Sure things haven't been good lately, but...
-Is this really the end?
No!
-Why?
Yes!!! But, you may be thinking,
“I don't know what to do…. Everything I've been trying hasn't been working…”
-How do I do it?
It is vital that you learn exactly what will draw your spouse to you…
And what will push them further away…
Right?
It's life or death for your marriage…
So, take a deep breath…
Know that it is absolutely possible to reconnect with your spouse…
And let's take action…
The first, most critical thing you can do right now is…
Create positive experiences with your spouse.
Likely, things are very tense between you currently…
RELATIONSHIP REBOOT
“I don't know what to do….
Everything I've been trying hasn't been working…”
Pretty important, right?
CREATING POSITIVE EXPERIENCES WITH YOUR SPOUSE WILL:
Help them actually WANT to be around you
Open them up so you can start to communicate better
Wondering what you can do to have a positive experience with your spouse?
Start with these two questions:
WHAT WOULD MY SPOUSE FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH AT THIS POINT?
WHAT WOULD THEY APPRECIATE?
Got it?
Now, do it and execute.
Aim to have at least one positive interaction with your spouse over the next 48 hours.
It could be as simple as expressing understanding to them in a conversation.
I'm serious, do it right now!
You want to have this positive experience ASAP.
Now, there are a few more questions and challenges you could have…
But we'll talk about them in the emails I've got prepared for you in a couple of days ;)
Ok… you did it, right?
Because you're going to have this experience in hand when you “Stop the Damage”
which is what I have coming at you next.