The LIEF of the CONFIDENCE OF SELF-CONFIDENCE /

The concept (or marketing product) of self-confidence leads not only to failure, but also to loneliness and exacerbated pride. The concept of self-confidence is an individualistic concept that brings into a sort of delusion of self-sufficiency for the one who owns it or the one who hopes to possess it. The individual loses more and more sense of realities by giving himself abilities he does not have, (and by denying the disabilities he has) or thinking he can obtain some almost superhuman abilities, which would make him to have access to some sort of assured success. So self-confidence becomes a sort of psychological doping drug, philosopher's stone, or st graal , which will give me access to the glory and life I have always dreamed of. And that, of course, with the least effort possible.
There is an almost hypnotic "something" in this deceptive concept that literally disconnects people from reality and their responsibilities. This paranoid illusion, of which they are victims, makes them live in a sort of parallel dimension, which has nothing to do with real life. We dream the life we ​​could have, if only we had this "famous" self-confidence. Instead of living the real life of going to work like everyone else, paying rent and assuming the role of studious child or parenting and good citizenship. Simple roles of everyday life that require nothing but common sense, and strictly no special self-confidence.
That's why the lie of the concept of self-confidence is dangerous, and inevitably leads to failure. Since it's a bogey catcher, a carrot that stimulates the ego, flatters it, but it does not really yield anything concrete in real life. And who has never brought you anything special to you who read these lines. You believe in rumors, and you have complexes and guilt because you've heard that ... (By the way, it's well known, in sales strategies and mental manipulation techniques, that guilt has always been the best way to buy) but concretely speaking you never see extraordinary results or concrete, in those who talk about it or who claim to have it. The star-mania of the feigners we see on TV has gone up at the head of people. And it is after this life of vanity that they run when they run behind this phony concept of self-confidence.

The only rational and realistic trust is that which is put in God. To the only one who can provide for my needs, to which, in spite of all my efforts and all the self-confidence that I can have, I could never provide. Hoping that He continues to put bread on our table. May He protect us from harm and give us good health. May He clothe us and give us a roof over our heads. A family and friends who love us, what is and will always be the true wealth of a human being. All the rest is stupid vanity, good only for those who are not going anywhere and who are victims of the more fallacious concepts of each other, of our consumer society.
Now, if I have the opportunity to become rich and have success and fame, I will not be choosy. But if I remain a simple person, leading a quiet life and not being known to anyone, I will not make it an illness either. I'm not going to blow my brain (or let others swell my brain) by telling me stories like it's because I lack confidence in myself that I do not have the life I'm dreaming of, and that I will have to pay a "specialist" to give me this pseudo-need that he himself created from scratch, in order to strip me. The dream life is a concept invented and fed by the media for a purely commercial purpose, and not for the sake of the consumer. It is not a work of charity that one would have invented, as one had "so much" took compassion for the people and one wanted to do something for them, out of goodness of soul. Stop being so naive. It's just another successful market, and you're just another donkey running behind one more carrot.
(Finally, here is the example of self-confidence that is taken, but it is exactly the same principle that applies to all concepts that revolve around you - self-love, self-esteem, knowledge of self, belief in oneself, etc., that could be united in one and the same concept: Self marketing).
Oh yes ! you are a victim of mental manipulation dear reader, and it may be time to wake up before your life is spoiled by chimeras and a treasure trove of treasure that exists nowhere else but your imagination, of which we played, once more.
"Do not aspire to what is high, but let yourself be attracted by what is humble.