i agree with you @meanmommy33 on a lighter mood due, true love is not just about changing pattern but i will advice you fall in love with someone who knows your values, someone that want to be with you no matter what, someone that will tell you that you are beautiful even without makeup, above all someone with the fear of God. there is nothing like a perfect relationship every relationship have it ups and down but if you both work hard perfection is sure, love have to deal with how you feel.... "It only takes two to make it true."