@rok-sivante, This is really important subject which we have to understand and also this is one Subject which gives beautiful life phase or it can push one into the phase of darkness. And there are many who are facing the both phases, as you said, every aspect holds both light and dark side.

First of all i want to talk about the Attraction aspect and that means, in my opinion marriage is an concept of the spiritual aspect and that is because, we have to stay as two body but one soul and two souls can become one through the process of Understanding. But when it comes to the Relationships there is an big drawback and that is, in most of the cases people just attract towards the Physical Appearance and fail to connect with spiritual essence.

And when we just continue an relationship considering the attraction aspect and move towards the decision of marriage, in many cases we saw that over the time these Relationships started to move towards the diminishing stages because, physical aspect is part of an particular relationship and not complete meaning of relationship. So people should understand why they are moving towards an relation, and marriage is one aspect which reborn one individual and that means now your decisions will not affect just you but it will affect your new world which is formed due to marriage.

If anyone agrees or not, now a days the relationships are becoming more materialistic and that means, marriages are becoming more in a way of Agreements and like an strategy, means people analyse one's financial background and then they do the calculation of life, as per these Calculations moving into an relationship and marriage, in my opinion in most cases it leads to the failures because no matter how much wealth one has, if they don't hold the spiritual connection and understanding then that relationship will going to born unseen wars time to time.

Marriage is great and beautiful aspect and it should be the movement of natural and with organic essence and not with materialistic essence. If you have spiritual connections still you will going to face the obstacles, problems, failures and adversity but, here the magic comes in and that means relationships which holds the spiritual connections will going to become strong due to understanding and who lack the spiritual understanding in that relationships most of the times we see Blame Games.

And for sure true Love and Marriage is not any type of fairy tale but yes, if you hold the spiritual understandings then no matter what situation arises, for sure you can make your Relationship an fairytale.

This was an great subject for sure, and keep writing more deep subjects because it expands the knowledge and the understanding and pushes towards the self finding aspects.

Wishing you an great day and stay blessed. 🙂