LEARN TO HELP YOURSELF BEFORE YOU SEEK HELP FROM OTHERS

in #life6 years ago

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Most people has failed today because they spent all their lives hoping on somebody else to help shape their future or help them when the need arise, A lot of people have this entitlement mentality and when they reach out to you or any other member of their family and was unable to get help, they tag that person as stingy or greedy and lay example of how that Uncle/Aunt of their is spending money lavishly on their kids but yet don't want to look at their own side. Nobody owes us anything and if they want to help or not is up to them and if they are not okay with it, they won't. We only look at why the person don't want to help but fail to realise that person might also need help too and sometimes, we have depended so much and don't want to work to help ourselves because we feel we have that family member at the top who will help.
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We should all prepare ourselves because what we want might not happen at that point or time we need, we need to build our own tentacle and change the things others couldn't. Everybody cannot see things from our angle, same way we can't see things from theirs.

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