A MAN AND HIS CHOICE OF HIS IDEAL WOMAN.
A man's ideal woman.
I don't understand why some people even some men think that it wrong for a man to consider the physically appearance of a woman in his choice for a man's ideal woman. There are some men who belief that a man is not supposed to consider the physically appearance of a woman in his choice of his ideal woman because of the belief that the character of a woman is more important in a man's choice of his ideal woman. This is something that really sound ridiculous to me.
Some men especially some christian men try to quote that verse in the Bible that says "that the beauty of a woman will fade away" to defend their belief that a man is not supposed to go for a woman who is physically beautiful in a marriage relationship as his choice of his ideal woman. But i think they are misunderstanding the verse. What i think the verse is trying to say is that a man should not just look at the physical beauty of the woman and forget about other aspects of the woman.
It wasn't women who are beautiful that made themselves beautiful and so they should not be condemned for been beautiful. If a woman cannot be an ideal choice for a man because she is beautiful, who is going to date or marry her then, Animals? I guess not.
Somebody told that the reason why he thinks that it is wrong for a man to marry a beautiful woman, is because beautiful women have bad character because the allow their beauty to get into their head and misbehave. Maybe this is true but it is definitely not all beautiful women, because i know a lot of beautiful women with very good character.
There are beautiful women who actually want to live a respectable life for themselves and their reputation and so they choose to have good character. The fact is that whether a woman is physically beautiful or not she can have a good character or a bad character, it just depends on the way she sees life.
Some people belief that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder and so every woman is beautiful.
every woman is beautiful.
But there are people who belief that there are women who are physically beautiful and women who are not, but they should know that whether the woman is physically attractive or not she can have a good character or a bad character. I know several women who are not really physically beautiful in my opinion with really bad character. In fact i know of a man who married a woman who is not physically beautiful because he had this view that women who are physically beautiful had bad character, but he was complaining to me that his wife has bad character.
Now he is regretting the marriage, he was saying that if he had known he would have married a physically beautiful woman so that even if she still had a bad character, at least she is beautiful and so one side would have still been good about her. But now he feels that both sides are bad about his wife because she is not physically beautiful and has bad attitude and because of this he feels he has lost on both sides. So for those men who think that marrying a woman who is phyiscally unattractive means marrying a woman with good character should know that even women who are physically unattractive can have bad character.
The point here, is that the physical beauty of a woman is still important in the choice of a man's ideal woman because men are moved by site naturally in a woman and so it will be ridiculous for a man to discard it in his choice of his ideal woman. If you find some men who tell you that the physical beauty of a woman is not important in the choice of a man's ideal woman, you will still notice that they also considered it in their choice of their ideal woman. It might not necessarily be in the facial beauty of the woman but in other areas like the height, complexion of the woman and so on.
I see several men who are tall saying that the physical appearance of a woman should not matter in the choice of a man's ideal woman and yet they are married to women who are short. This shows that they considered the physical appearance of the woman because when a tall person marries a short person the physical appearance was considered because opposite they said attracts.
So basically even men who feel that the physical appearance of a woman should not matter in a man's choice of his ideal woman also consider the physical appearance in their choice of their ideal woman. it is just that they might not know that they considered it because they might be thinking that the physical beauty of a woman is just in the facial beauty of the woman whereas there other aspects that can be considered.
The point here is that as much as the character of a woman is important in the choice of a man's ideal, the physical appearance of the woman is also consciously or unconsciously important to a man too.
So my summation here is the character of a woman is important in the choice of a man's ideal woman but i also belief that it goes hand in hand with the physical appearance of the woman.
what do you think?