Why are we like we are?

The way we live our lives is a weird and somehow perfect redundancy of the same old song: we are born in a loving family, we grow up, make friends, we fall in love a thousand times, break our hearts a thousand times more, we find that perfect person to spend the rest of our lives with, we start having our own big problems, we have kids, they make our lives impossible but yet we can’t stop loving them, they grow up as we grow old, we become wiser and more annoying, and at some point life decides it’s time to go.

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The hilarious part of it all, is that we manage to strongly believe that what we think, the things that happen to us and simply our lives are such an unique thing that we cannot even imagine that someone else, between these 7 billion people walking on Earth, could possibly be living the same situation that we are.

I get really worried when I see the people I love trying to figure out how to deal with the problems they have. Sometimes we don’t realize that no matter how big our problems are, the truth is that probably a million other human beings have gone through the same situation, and they found their way out at some point. It is impossible for us to literally get drowned in our problems! And that being said, let’s also remember that more people has lived and died on Earth that the ones that are living on it at this moment, and there’s an uncountable amount of stories lived by us all, that not even the greatest computer could save it, so you may want to analyze the actual fact that no matter how deep you feel that you’re falling, there is and will always be someone else that went, is going or will go through a worse experience that yours. So, why would you feel like you can’t carry your situation on your shoulders? It’s time to realize that you’re way stronger than you think you are.

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Life is a sea of opportunities, given by the decisions we make, and we can make the craziest decision and deeply believe that not too many people would do the same, but the truth is that we live in an endless cycle full of smaller cycles that make us who we are, and being the result of that another endless redundancy, then who can tell me that there isn’t someone out there that lives their life just like I live mine? If they can live through any circumstance life puts on their way, then why wouldn’t I?