Learn from bitterness and disappointment
Hi friend steemit
Have you ever heard of the person who first conjured up the value of a kinetic energy ?, or about the story of Thomas Elva Edison who is often taunted by his friends and then he is able to illuminate this universe with the discovery of his lamp ?. They learn from scratch, they learn from bitterness, just as Thomas has been heavily disappointed at being considered the most foolish student in the class.
What is the most bitter of disappointment? It does not contain a kind of intersection of ireng, quinine or bile that can be vomited from the mouth when we can not swallow it. The bitterness of disappointment can make people explode anger. Or if the disappointment is accompanied by a sense of despair, then he could be desperate to end his life. Like a young man who rejected his love by a woman in his likes, he could be a very deep feeling of disappointment will lead to loss of love itself. Or a candidate for governor who has spent billions of dollars hoping to win the election, but when the vote is not on his side, then the disappointment could be to wipe out sympathy for everyone known. Many negative things will arise when a person experiences disappointment.
Face with a smile.
However, if the disappointment is addressed with a patient heart and does not contain anger, then the sense of disappointment will be a blessing to someone. Then, how do we face and respond to the sense of disappointment that already comes and perched on the heart? Actually there are many things we can do when we are disappointed with something we have not yet accomplished. The most important thing is do not despair. Although the disappointment arises from failure, failure is not the end of everything. Think of failure as a stepping stone to greater success. Make that failure as a teacher who has taught us many things about mistakes. And the error that has happened that we make as a sign to no longer doing wrong in the future. Are not many successful people that were just people who failed over and over again?!? So failure is just a sign to success, and it does not have to add to problems when we feel disappointed. Smile for the future.
Positive thinking
It is very difficult to be able to smile when we reap disappointment, most of us can only leave a bitter smile. However, try to start a smile when disappointed with positive thinking ((Well thought) Suppose a sense of disappointment is there, so that one day we can enjoy a sense of satisfaction Enjoy the feeling of disappointment as we enjoy the hunger in fasting, the pleasure will feel delicious when Breaking in. Be kind to the Lord who has determined everything to happen according to his will Suppose a disappointment will only be temporary, and in time God will give His help and replace the disappointment with a sense of satisfaction or God may have a better will Which has been prepared for His good-worshiped servants.Is not the Good God !? Look at a brighter tomorrow with positive thinking and belief "SURE THERE A HIKMAH WHICH HAD GOD IS BECOME ALL THIS"
Allahu A'lam
This is all I can write for today. Hopefully useful to the author himself and to all friends steemit. Thank you for your attention.
Mntap that bg ;)
kepahitan dan kekecewaan akan selalu menjadi momok yang menakutkan bagi kita semua, namun dibalik itu semua tersimpan sebuah hikmah yang tiada ternilai harganya yaitu pengalaman.. pengalamanlah yg berperan sebagai guru kita yang paling berharga dan hebat.. good post kawan..
Betoi ,,, thanks..
Allah menguji kita bukan saja lewat kesenangan, melainkan pula ada lewat musibah. Tapi disetiap musibah pasti ada hikmah yang sangat amat besar terkandung didalamnya....
Sukses selalu @toniesteem....