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It is increasingly common that through social networks women and men try to establish friendships, and many others a relationship. We receive news where couple relationships are narrated that were initiated through the Internet, with a chat, Facebook, Twitter, etc.
We can say that it is true that a relationship between two people can be initiated in this way,

but it does not mean that falling in love can occur in this way, what the means of communication of this type encourage is the possibility of exchanging information, personal to the general, letting see some signs of that person's way of being and their way of thinking about different topics, what produces or a rejection or an increase of interest in that person, and curiosity and the desire to interact with it, for those who are looking for a partner this gives them the possibility to exchange with future candidates to fill this gap.

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It is in this way that many people consider the possibility of meeting with that other being with which they have established a relationship through the media, thus planning the meeting with the illusion of all expectations created by themselves or created by the another person who gives information that may or may not be true.

Falling in love with someone then needs the presence of one or the other, and despite the fact that today's media can allow people to see each other, this does not encourage the loading of messages that we receive from the other person, such as when we have it in front.

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It is increasingly common the initiation and establishment of relationships, but it is really good to stop to mediate what kind of relationships are the most established, it is typical that those seeking a partner through the network, are people who already they are not so young, they are needing or think they need an urgent partner because they feel that time is running out, many have had years of difficulty in entering into a relationship, have been afraid to accept or encourage an approach, or are people who are or were very hurt by a previous relationship, are many of them divorced or widowed, in short people in need of company who do not feel safe to go out and find love.
This type of person begins to be interested in that person who through social networks shows interest, who exchanges history, successes, dreams and dreams, some share fears, past pains and all appeal to their loneliness.

It is much easier to relate when we are hidden behind a computer and when we can think about what we will answer and even erase and rewrite what did not fit, we will generate illusion and wake up dreams. It is in this way that the possibility of the encounter arises and when this happens, it is when we really begin to know that other human being, we will realize if it really awakens our interest or if it pleases us,
if we are attracted, and if it awakens the sensations and emotions that make us fall in love with that human being. In some cases it happens, but in most cases it does not occur, chemistry does not occur and our brain is not flooded with neurotransmitters that make us feel madly in love with someone, provoking nervousness, sweating, buttocks in the stomach, anxiety, despair, etc. .
We can not fail to mention the risks involved in this type of relationship, and that is how there are many well-meaning people, there are others who hunt helpless souls to take advantage of both emotionally, physically and often in what economic. It must be remembered that we are opening the doors to someone we met online, but that until the meeting is established and the personal connection is unknown, we only know what that person wanted to teach us or make us see.

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• Many men, above all, take advantage of the circumstances of a woman eager to find a partner or a love and are painted or sold as people who are not. In this way they fill false and hopeful hopes to a being exposed to be damaged or abused.
• Another risk is that all human beings when we are in conquest teach what benefits us or sells us well; we never show our difficult or less attractive side, of course this is discovered when the encounter and the personal experience happens.

But just as there are these risks, we can say without fear that social networks have allowed us to approach human beings, create friendships and establish couples,

it has helped us to see unions that arise between people from different parts of the world, where cultures mix and arise new social patterns that will continue to increase according to the use of technology.

In summary we could say that it is possible to establish a relationship through social networks, but to get to fall in love you need the presence of the body, the power not only to see, but to touch, to smell, to know face to face, being able to pick up the signals bodily that trigger attraction, desire, and infatuation. Love is nourished by presence, closeness, contact, the possibility of seeing the other behave personally and socially. It is necessary to see that person so that the real attraction is born and our brain system is triggered.

All this can not happen in the network, this will only allow us the possibility of initiating contact, of deluding ourselves, of being interested, but not of falling in love. Can virtual sex or love on the web replace the reality of body-to-body contact, or the sigh of two enamored souls to whom the skin prickles at the closeness? I doubt it and I really hope it never happens.
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