Passive violence: wounds that seems superficial

The violent leads us to an active position, so in principle, in everyday life we treat one always with people without raising their voices, and without telling us any strong or hurtful words, they make us feel aggression. We usually have situations that operate in the same way
If you are a victim of passive violence you feel an indefinable malaise and that deaf irritation. At the same time, it becomes an agent of the same mechanism. This not only occurs to individuals, but also to groups.

A very obvious example of passive violence we will find in adolescents. The father and mother tell them to put order in their chaos, "stooooooop!" And, they never obey.
And with the smaller ones is also very frequent. They have a tantrum and, if you do not give in to their whim, they throw themselves back to get injured
With adults, how not, also When you talk to someone and pretend not to hear you. And when they put you between the sword and the wall and kindly if they ask you to decide.
We have to learn to tune these manipulation mechanisms. Conflict in order not to motivate or fuel this type of violence. This does not mean that you say everything that goes through your head. It is simply about increasing our ability to communicate, that this be clearly and serenely, everything that does not please us