The Slippery Steemit Slope...

in life •  6 months ago

It’s happening again.

I’ve been through this pattern more than once.

The fluctuations of a love-hate relationship, descending into the “hate” valley... perhaps no isolated matter, but a perfectly-timed correlation with the revisiting of old addictive patterns.

I have loved Steemit at times. The rewards, obviously loveable. The intellectual stimulation, connections, and sharing of ideas and reflections which have been received to benefit others - all fantastic. Though repeatedly, I’ve cycled back around to the opposite end of the spectrum, questioning...


Why continue writing here?

Given the current rewards values, it’s definitely not for the money.

And while I’ve attempted convincing myself it’s ultimately for the purpose of service - paying forward many of the valuable lessons and insights I’ve been gifted and have unlocked throughout the course of my journey, so as to shorten the learning curve for others on the path - there inevitably come points where even that seemingly-logical motivation must be questioned and probed into more deeply as to just how genuine it is, or what degree of self-righteousness may be concealed within, the surface-level “selflessness” perhaps cloaking some egoistic sense that ”I know better” and have something fantastic to bestow on the peasants “beneath” me.

Things change.

For the majority of the years I’ve been writing, there was some subconscious - or perhaps even semi-conscious - motivation to “prove” myself, to validate my intelligence, to be recognized for my genius. I sought success not for the sole purpose of service, but for gratification of my desires for recognition.

And the closer I’ve gotten to “success” - measured in influence, or more tangibly, the number of readers receptive to my sharings - the less I’ve wanted it.

A number of books had been started over years, with great ambitions of dropping some profound knowledge bombs and thought-provoking insights on the masses. Yet, as I’ve continued refining my writing skills and have been actualizing some of those pieces via Steemit - arriving into the space where such a possibility could be within reach... the motivation seems to have dissipated.

And even with these fragments of thoughts spewed onto the Steem blockchain, I come back around to inquire: why?

At the moment, the answer goes a little something like, my Macbook died (due to my careless spilling coffee on it) and am still waiting for the new computer to arrive so I can get making music again - and in the meantime, writing is the only real creative outlet I have to vent the backed up energy - thus, it might be a sort of self-protective mechanism to prevent self-implosion, were I to stunt creative flow altogether.

There was a brief moment where the idea for a new book seemed to be crystallizing - which would seem like a lot more “constructive” use of time and energy than random blog vents. But, as I sat with the idea, the initial spark of inspiration flickered out.

Maybe I just didn’t act on it fast enough, and ”should” have ran with it.

But, it’s not exactly that simple.

Slowing myself was wise, as it allowed reflection. Yeah, some masterpiece of a book sounds great. But, what would the implications be, were it actually to materialize as exceptional as the ideal? (Sidestepping the acknowledgement that it could also turn out to be a piece of shit, tainted with that old ego-driven desire to prove myself “smart,” catapulting myself higher into a public spotlight in the image of someone I’d prefer died - rather than waiting patiently for the fuller maturation of character, wherefrom a far higher quality of work could emerge meeting the standards I’ve set for myself.)

I mean, there’s this evil marketing genius I know who could get the book to a best-seller on Amazon. But then what?

If it really took off, would I really want to deal with what came next? If I were to be requested for podcast interviews or live speaking events... would I actually be prepared for that? Is that actually what I want? Not really.

Yet, it seems almost shortsighted or half-assed to not plan that far ahead. Simply write a book, with no back-end strategy to build upon its success, and then onto business as usual...? Uh uh. But then again, there is no “business as usual” from this point.

What’s emerged through this last month without a computer (and consequentially, the inability to produce music): the awareness that the desire to produce music is far greater/stronger than that to write.

At this point, I’m content with not writing a book.

Yeah, I might have some knowledge bombs stockpiled that could be of value to an audience bigger than Steemit. And sure, some of those bombs I have been dropping to the limited audience on Steemit have been well-received.

But there’s a part of me that really doesn’t fucking care so much anymore.

Yeah, it’s been cool to receive the feedback that my writing has positively impacted some people here. Though if being honest with myself, the greatest sense of fulfillment I’ve experienced all year so far is not having my work affect a larger quantity of readers, but actually within two friendships I’ve cultivated via this platform with @olumideolowoyeye and @maxwell95 on the basis of their musical inspiration.

The very first times I heard these cats sing... I recognized something special.

And to be able to offer some encouragement and support, and working towards collaborating to produce some stuff for them that might help boost their careers... fuck, man. That is something way more meaningful than “my” ambitions to write some book and get personal credit for it, or even release music under my own name.

Perhaps this shift in motivations is some sort of mark of maturity...?

Where is this story going...?

I dunno.

And that is kinda how I’ve been feeling about all my writing in general, lately.

Maybe it’s simply self-doubt that has me questioning, ”who the fuck cares” about these personal ramblings Steemit has become my platform for venting. Why am I persisting through these valleys of the love-hate cycle, when engaging my creativity in such directions seems to lead to yet more inner chaos - whereas it feels there’s a wiser part of me saying, “back the fuck off and chill, buddy...?”

I recently discovered an amazing astrologer on YouTube, who I must actually confess I’m developing something of a man-crush on as he’s so fucking good... the outlook he shared for this last week was so powerful, and provided some stellar reflection points on the choices we’re making at this time - whether continuing to spread ourselves thin and engage in relationships and projects that don’t really nourish our soul, or whether we’re consciously setting boundaries for ourselves that are absolutely essential to the focusing of our time and energy in the directions most-constructive to our soul fulfillment and higher purpose...

IF you are into astrology, I’d highly recommend checking the dude out, as he’s now officially my #1 source of top-notch astro insight, who I couldn’t praise highly enough:


This week has provided a lot of space for reflection on those questions...

To what degree have I been perpetuating old patterns that really don’t serve me anymore, holding grand ambitions and crazy ideas for world-changing writing and business, versus growing the balls and exercising the courage to cut off what ain’t working anymore, recalibrate, and follow upon the guidance that’s been actually rather clear all along...?

There is a part of me that loves Steemit - not only as a platform for creative expression, but perhaps even moreso at this point to give back and pay forward some of the financial opportunity that I was fortunate to have received when I first started here. It is really cool knowing that the support of my votes to a few awesome people in “third-world” countries whose demonstrated leadership has been inspiring does make a difference. And it is cool receiving feedback that my writing - whether it’s fresh, or some of the content I’ve been republishing from 7-9 years ago - has been having constructive impact.

Though, it really fucking does feel like a slippery slope for me staying in this digital space. Whether engaging in “counter-productive” analytic loops or submitting to the temptations of emotional reaction when inevitably having to deal with someone overstepping their boundaries and bringing bullshit into my space... there are times when it feels that staying in this space is simply a lose-lose situation - destructive to myself as much others who’ll be affected through the building resentments weaved in the subtext of my output.

And of course, ultimately, that is merely the consequence of my own approach, attitudes, patterns, habits, etc, etc which are my responsibility to upgrade, should they not be working so well anymore.

Was it not Steemit that appeared to be an issue, my addictive tendencies would surely find another outlet soon enough. No blame. I’m a fucking adult. Time to grow up, set some boundaries, and exercise the discipline to stay within them.

And maybe, once the new computer arrives and all is setup to get making music again, those addictive compulsions might actually be able to be channeled constructively - focused toward taking the action that’s undeniably necessary to advance with key goals that have never wavered throughout my entire life.

I do feel rather stupid, having to wait until age 35 to realize the critical essentiality of taking such committed, persistent action. Maybe I was naive and delusional, thinking there was no sense of immediacy and that I could procrastinate indefinitely with music, while chasing all other variety of “business opportunities.” Or maybe there is some absolutely perfect, divine timing in it all.

In any case...

Maybe it’s about time to figure out how the fuck the dark web works and start smoking DMT everyday. Everything was all so clear up at those peaks in aya ceremony, and integrating back into this dense-ass world with its time and space constraints is quite the challenge at times. There definitely is a divine order to it all. And sometimes, a slingshot up into hyperspace is necessary to reconnect to the higher-awareness of how all these puzzle pieces fit together in the bigger picture and unfold perfectly across the timeline of these lives.

Blah, blah, blah.

How true, The Leo King’s dramatization of Chiron... the immortal God, dealing with the infliction of this fucking mortal wound...

(For real, check him out - his latest videos posted above - if you’re into astrology. If not, but curious, perhaps read Esoteric Exploration: Why Astrology? for a decent intro to the domain.)

Though nonetheless, the game carries on.

The cards we’ve been dealt, ours to play how we shall...

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This is a cycle all artist go through, whatever medium you use. Continuing to create while in these valleys is what separates the remembered from the forgotten.

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A two-sentence comment well-worth a 100% vote.

While I do love your typical satirical comments, I also greatly appreciate this feedback/perspective. 🙏

Firstly, I wanna say a big thank you and I’d never stop appreciating you from the depth of my heart cause apart from the support to take my singing career to the world level. Apart from the encouragement, the mentorship, the enlightenments, the teachings and to mention but a few .
You’ve helped me achieved what will forever be valuable to me which I sent you the picture on discord and I doubt if you had seen the very last one I sent.

Reading through this post opened my eyes to the what a purpose could be, sometimes in life our purposes are different from what we choose for ourselves until one realizes the main purpose, one might never be fully fulfilled in whatever purpose one chooses for self. This is another knowledge gained from you as I’ve gathered not much but many/numerous knowledge through you.

There is a part of me that loves Steemit - not only as a platform for creative expression, but perhaps even moreso at this point to give back and pay forward some of the financial opportunity that I was fortunate to have received when I first started here. It is really cool knowing that the support of my votes to a few awesome people in “third-world” countries whose demonstrated leadership has been inspiring does make a difference. And it is cool receiving feedback that my writing - whether it’s fresh, or some of the content I’ve been republishing from 7-9 years ago - has been having constructive impact.

I’m a living example and I can say a product of your support through this platform.

What’s emerged through this last month without a computer (and consequentially, the inability to produce music): the awareness that the desire to produce music is far greater/stronger than that to write.

So sad an occurrence , the one that took the life of your MacBook 💻, I could say sorry about your MacBook a million times over but it changes nothing tho courtesy is all that is needed sometimes to comfort so I’m gonna say this “ A palace burnt down only improves and increases the beauty cause it will be built up better and more beautiful again.” So said an adage

I personally can’t wait for the new computer so as to kick off making more music from where we stopped. Dont stop impacting life cause you’re actually doing more than what you think you’re doing. And believe me you’re much appreciated.


Did i enter the show late? 😃, @olumideolowoyeye Already stole the show lol, just kidding.

@olumideolowoyeye, if we all Come here to mention what @rok-sivante has done for us, this page will turn into a testimony ground. Everyday i wAke up, I give God the praise for using him to bless us here, even when we had issues, he never stop supporting me, I KEEP WONDERING WHAT A MAN HE IS. Will be glad seeing him run for witness Someday.

one thing he Always say is that we should make sure we pay this forward and that we should not forget someday.

I personally cant wait to see you with 100% RC😂 back to music production, havent listen to any song by the two people you mentioned above, but i trust your judgement on that, since you say they are good, i know you damn mean it. I pray it get to a stage were goals can be met. Wont be a bad idea if a Record label can be set up, will be happy to be an official d.j @rok-sivante


A record label sounds wonderfully amazing. I’m sure the sound of it has fallen unto the right ears and I hope it shall be implemented


(Note comment below)


T’was one of my earliest aspirations to get a label up and running, that did persist for some time. Or, that somehow I dropped the idea at some point - not sure whether because just wasn’t time and switched focused to more immediate pursuits, or perhaps even started looking at things from a different angle with blockchain coming along and removing the need for such middlemen enterprises, with artists becoming able to release independently more and more easily...

Might be an interesting idea to revisit and reassess how it could still be a suitable vehicle, in context of the industry/landscape as it’s evolved so much into what it is today... 🤔


Blockchain truly is bringing independence to artist but truth must be told, the importance of a record label can never be over emphasized. The movie “Empire” really shows the deep insight in music business and I must say an upcoming artist won’t make it far without a record label or a management.

It’d be such a wonderful thing if the plan is revisited. I’d humbly apply or rather say I humbly apply to be in the record label when it launches. Looking forward to the implementation of the already existing idea. More grease to your elbow


Re: MacBook...

Haha! Sad, nah - it’s okay. was traumatizing at first. But your selected quote holds true. The new upgrade is probably well-timed and necessary for the next levels.

Your feedback is always such a reward of its own. For real - as much as you’ve expressed your gratitude for my support, it’s been a two-way street - and as written above, I do feel like connecting with you and Maxwell have been two of the biggest blessings this year has brought so far. 🙏💖


I must say you’ve been a bigger blessing nature has brought to me since my brain could comprehend what a blessing could be. I’m honored, thrilled and overwhelmed to read that I’m a blessing if not to the whole of the platform or my country or the world , I’m a blessing to an amazing individual like yourself and this gave me Joy and established the fact that I’d been a blessing in a way I knew not, to those I knew not. It gladdens my heart. Once again, I’m honored


Steemit is almost better than owning a web page, it good for post creation, now that censorship is out of hand on the big platforms, this might be the place to be, You might be years ahead, a couple years of censorship and the block chain becomes the new place people run to for freedom of expression, I wonder how much longer it will be and the main social media platforms will be as free as China, I do like the fact I can write posts on steemit than share it on other social media. There is a different kind of people on the steemit platform, it has a strange vibe to it.



Despite it not being perfect, there surely are a lot of great things about this platform - especially the community (generally)...

That's right that is what is always needed by many people where valuable lessons are where we learn

I have translated this extraordinary post into Indonesian sir @ rok-sivante greetings.



This one, I honestly would have preferred you hadn’t.

Quite personal. Too much probably lost in translation. :-/

Ah well. Guess it’s just my own lesson to be more aware and diligent in what I choose to post, knowing such translations outside of my control may be possible.

Thanks anyways. Perhaps I’ve had a bit of difficulty receiving your compliment, too subjectively weighed down in the emotion of this post to see how it may be seen as “extraordinary” by others...

Which inspires the thought:

From now on, when you do* choose to translate any of my posts, please do share what about them you found to be “extraordinary” - I’m curious for the feedback and to understand what specifically it is about the writings that you may find it worthy of bridging to the Indonesian audience...


I will try to make my own post, even though it is difficult I get a voice sir, and I am having a hard time finding a little money, money to bring my mother to the hospital, and I will continue to fight in steemit to get good grades, even though it takes a long time to collect money, sir . regards sir @rok-divante :)


Ok sir :)

I'm sorry if I'm wrong sir, and I do this, I want to be your personal translator, and I admit you, if I don't do this, I don't get votes for my posts. therefore I continue to translate your posts to get votes, and I really appreciate, you choose me. and if you forbid me from translating your posts again, I will stop translating them sir. :)


No problem. All good. 👍


I hope from you, I can always get support from you sir.


Checking back through your post - I see you're totally fine with his translating your posts! Glad to see it's not blatant plagiarism :)

sorry for the bother! just wanting to make sure to follow up on who requests my little delegations for their RCs ;)

Not my cup of tea, but I am really relating to the video about this week, 15min now and I did not expect to go past min 2. Hope you figure out your direction or find that thing you can at least hold onto for now.


Some unfriendly way of expressing your opinion here my friend. Words they say brings out gifts from the pockets only if used appropriately, words also unshield a sword 🗡 if not carefully uttered.


Hope you make it all the way through... the deeper in, the bigger the gems, some of the best closer to the end.

All is well. Just a bit of patience required - and thus, perhaps the tests to cultivate... :-)