Hope - Willing to Assist Others at All Cost?

Hoping that others fail will not help you at all in life. I often find myself doing this, when I'm not intentionally trying to fail. I can say that when I hope that others fail, I come up with all kinds of reasons as to why that might happen. This actually works against me in that I often create more problems for myself by having negative feelings and thoughts.


Why do you think that it is so hard to do things your way? It's because there are too many factors that can prevent you from success. This includes outside distractions and the hindrances of negative thinking. These things will not just go away. It is in your best interest not to focus on these things, when you are trying to build your own personal success.

Many people feel that if they think about or hope about something a lot, then it will happen. But, is that really true? Have you ever noticed that those who live in hope and expectation, always seem to get what they want and always feel like success is right around the corner? You see, many have a mindset that their thoughts have control over their outcomes. That's where hope comes in.

Hoping that others fail will not help you at all. What it will do is create a domino effect where you start thinking about everything that you could possibly hope or expect to happen. This is not good for you. I have learned my lesson. The way that I look at life is based on hope.

You see, in many cases, people assume that their intentions have been successful. But, when their intentions fail, they sit and wonder why it didn't work out the way that they hoped. That's where hope stops. So, instead of hoping that others fail, you should work on the things that you can control. In many cases, if you don't control what happens, you will have no control of the outcome. So, that's where control comes in.

If you are in a situation where others seem to be going places and succeeding, your mind will often wonder why it's not you succeed too. It's simple. You haven't figured out how to separate your thoughts from your actions yet. You need to figure that out and then move forward towards your goals.

The other thing about many times is that you are just waiting for life to go your way so that you can move up. But, this is not true, you can't move up in a lack of work. You have to put in the effort and be passionate about what you want out life and then take action.

In many cases, those actions may seem small, but they build up and soon enough, you'll see results. So, if you are doing everything right, why is there still hope for you? Your hope should come from within, not from someone else telling you that you can't do it.

As you move through life, sometimes you will make mistakes along the way. Life is a learning experience, especially when it comes to making mistakes. It's how you handle them and move on that matters. One mistake that many people make is hoping that things will go their way. No one was born to win over all of the time. There are going to be bumps in the road, but you can learn from them and get back on track.

What about when things aren't going so well? Do you sit there and hope that it's going to get better? If you sit there and think that you're just going to stay the same, then that's what's going to happen. You won't succeed by hoping others succeed. By believing that you will succeed, you'll achieve it.

One thing to remember when hoping that others fail is that when things get rough, sometimes you have to take drastic action in order to correct the problem. When times get tough, most people will sit around and wait for something to happen. When you don't take action, it's going to come to you harder than you could've imagined. That's why you need to take action if you want to succeed. You may be waiting a long time for the right situation to arise, but if you wait too long, nothing is going to change.


As I mentioned earlier, hope is a wonderful thing. Unfortunately, it can blind you from seeing what's really important. So instead of hoping that others fail, you should try to figure out why they're going to fail and work to prevent it from happening. Instead of hoping that others will do the right thing, you have to take action yourself and be the example that they should follow. If you truly want things to work out right, then you have to take action, follow-through, and make sure that you are always working toward a better place.