Throughout our whole life we focus on the things we wish we had

Rather than valuing what we have and being grateful for what we already achieved in life. 

By and by, we should think about it thusly… Happiness can be seen as the foundation and base of the structure we call life. Right when you are immaculately content with your life you can safely amass for as far back as you can recall on this solid basement and draw your future life on the foundation involving the most significant segment in life that exists: bliss. Whatever it is that you point; its accomplishment will allow you to land at an altogether increasingly raised degree of fulfillment that you would have thought exists, as you didn't long it with the sole motivation to find delight/fulfillment by its accomplishment. At the present time, internal happiness isn't dependent on external effects and doesn't rely upon these factors to be kept up on a relentless huge level. This similarly derives – if one of these external factors out of the blue parts away – it won't impact your fulfillment; in any occasion not vivaciously. 

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Regardless, if you aren't content with the presence you are living at the present time – by then there exists no strong base you can build your life on later on. (Benevolently don't misjudge me, no one's life is incredible and there is reliably space for updates, yet fulfillment is oftentimes a point of view!). All the undertakings to set up a reliable reason [that will involve fulfillment in the future], by endeavoring to amass riches, "go for the greens", look for after impact or physical resources will over the long haul crash and burn, as everything that depended on this non-existent tempest basement will fold in the end. 

Taking everything into account, you can't make a house without having an authentic foundation that can drive forward through the remarkable weight – especially not if you believe that by starting to amass a house the foundation "will come all regularly". That isn't the way wherein it works, not to the extent plan and not concerning fulfillment. Precisely the equivalent applies to the mission for rapture; veritable fulfillment can't be "got" by the undertaking to end up being particularly well-off and fantastic or by social occasion endorsements, degrees, accessories, reflexive vehicles, houses, and diverse physical resources.