Confidence in Decision Making

in #life6 years ago (edited)


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Choice is something a lot of us struggle with unfortunately, and choice is the act of hesitation before we make a decision for something to happen. The problem is that we analyze every choice, we try to take in every variable that we can. What we need to realize is that the amount of variables is infinite and there's no possible way that we can take in all those variables and make a good choice.


Every path, every decision is the right choice because what happens is if we doubt ourselves, we lack confidence. When we lose confidence, we end up fumbling and you'll lose regardless no matter what choice you make, no matter what you decide to do, if you don't do it with confidence, you end up fumbling. What's even more frustrating as we see those who make terrible decisions but do it with confidence and it ends up working out.


It turns out to be that this law doesn't matter what you decide to do, it all seems to work out in the end, one way or another and the trick is to see it like we are clouds.
I'm at the point where I realized of all the things that I have done in my life with all the good and bad decisions that I've made, all come out well in the end, which tells me that this is true, we really are like waves and cloud.

Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right.
-Phil McGraw



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We can't do things wrong, we just do things and roll with it. We make them right and we make them as we want them to be from time to time, from moment to moment because that's our job as creators to create and not to doubt, second guess and not to try and analyze everything.


I've mentioned this before that our minds are finite, we can't compute more than a handful of variables at a time and to leave the bigger picture up to the bigger source, whatever you want to call it, let your subconscious mind take care of the finite details and all the intimate amount of variables and things that go on. Let your conscious mind just act, not hesitate.


Trust yourself, be confident in your decisions because you know that for the most part that everything has come out well in the end, it has come together as it shouldn’t have and you begin to start and trust your intuition. You’ve got yourself knowing that whatever it is that you decide to do is going to be the right thing even if it doesn't seem right at the time, you will make it right because that is part of the power we have and we are god's of our own world.


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Not sure if I agree with all this. In life, there are good and bad choices & good and bad decisions. However, there's no point in regretting and living in the past or worrying about the future. Just stay positive and live in the present moment. Focus your energy and concentration on making the best choices/decisions in the present moment.

At times we just have to make the right decision not looking at who is for it or against it.
Nice one my boss

Everyone wants to take a decision they will be proud of taking, no one wants to take the decision that will make him or her fail. We need to become entrepreneurs

Ita only thing that makes a man a man

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