Stop Picking on Little People and Give Chance to Others

in life •  3 months ago

Ever since I have shared my life goals and ambitions here, including my venture, I've been receiving these attacks that I would be soon greedy and wealthy, ha! Not coming to me as a surprise anymore, but there has been a trend, by only a specific group of people. I really do not appreciate this dumb assumption since you don't really know me personally and what I've been going through in life. You don't even know some specific details about me. Why not focus on your own? Go set forth and find your purpose. I know that I write about various social issues I have experienced myself and I apologize if some are not really within your comfort zone. Some of my articles have the inconvenient truth in it. I just don't invent those events I write about, those are actually happening in the real world and it just happened that this is how I see things. Some things are just spot on. Steemit gives me a chance to write about those issues I see every day from my perspective. I didn't mean to impose white guilt or trigger the snowflakes out there, or bring out the dick in you, it is just your interpretation. It is not my fault if you have psychopathic genetics. Why not just recognize the reality instead of being ultra defensive? For sure if I have privileges but in the end, if it makes me a dick, I would question it myself too. Truth hurts I know. WHAT IS TRUE TO ME MIGHT NOT BE TRUE TO YOU. I'm merely exercising freedom of speech. And no, I'm not playing victim I'm just giving you my perceptions based on my own reality, sort of breath of fresh air. Try get a fuckin' different perspective sometimes. Anyway, allow me to justify once and for all.

I have different experiences in my travels based on my own reality and perceptions of the world. My articles turned out to be counterculture to the popular 'I traveled around the world without money' and all the typical backpacking stories. I didn't mean to be contrarian to the usual travel blogs of the tiny percent of travelers.

Yes, I hate the greedy elites of your society because they are the reason why we are still down here and no I'm not going to be like them, so please give up this fantasy. I'm far down here so why not instead of picking on my goals to merely survive, why not have a little check on your own elites and corporations? You see there are not many jobs around here and my age does not even qualify for shit jobs but I still need to bring food to the table right? Do you know what it means to be hungry and not have a good parent to provide? Like 0? If you don't then say no more.

I certainly do not have a badge of privileges that allow me to teach English or get some high wage somewhere cheaper in this world. Fortunately, I have discovered my passion in my travels that could finally give me freedom and a chance to a better life. I'm sorry if you still don't find that and I'm sure if you travel more you would discover it too. I stopped traveling because I have responsibilities in life that I selfishly ignored for years. I also have to let go of finding love because I cannot just worry about my own petty emotional needs at the moment. My venture aims to first have the assurance of regular food on the table for myself and for my sister. Later on, also help people not to be slaves to low wage jobs. Once everyone's stomach is full, then we can start taking care of the environment too. I really hope my venture as a means to survive and not be filthy wealthy is now made clear to people who have no fuckin' clue out there. Is it too hard to understand based on your own limited view of the world? It is too much to carry all the burden but writing about these real-life issues make me feel better every day. Some people are fighting a hard battle you have no idea. I have enough of these people in my life so please don't add anymore. Awwwww poor me, sob. Now fuck off and let me write freely. 😊

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Dear @diabolika you are such a strong soul! Just keep on going YOUR unique way and it will all be amazing :) If there is anyone trying to make you mad or bring you down than they are maybe unsatisfied with their own lifes. I wish you a bright future with everything you and your beloved ones need <3

Ever since I have shared my life goals and ambitions here, including my venture, I've been receiving these attacks that I would be soon greedy and wealthy, ha!

I don't see you becoming a greedy wealthy individual. Wealthy, yes. Greedy, no!

If people are saying this about you, they clearly have never experienced / learned even a portion of the "hands-on" life lessons that you have experienced. Simply from reading your stories and adventures, it's clear to tell the type of person you are and how your many humbling life experiences have molded you into the person that you are today. Those type of experiences will always be with you and I believe that no matter where you go in life, they will help keep you grounded and humble.

But hey, I'm just speaking from what I know (or think I know) about you from your writing! I'm fairly confident that you are a good person. And I'm fairly confident that you will continue to be a good person.

We are on the internet though, and haters will always try to bring others down because they have nothing else better to do. The only thing we have to do in response is smile and nod and ignore them ☺️

Hey @diabolika, you rock.

I love how you expressed it and can say that in my own respective life, I've had similar treatment.

I always look forward to your posts and unique perspectives about the things you are creating and experiencing along the way.

Sending you some love from Colorado on Thanks-giving!

just ignore the hitters....they always makes negative vibes on your life..always focus...im here to support you madam...have a nice day

never stop writing what you are writing...or in the way that you are writing. when people are triggered it helps, introspection helps. we are not meant to be all honky dory through out life. thank you

this is so true and i share the same believes raised to be employed in the school systems ugh i mean life is a bitch no need to get caught up in all the drama just live girl you got this!!!!

Are you on discord? Dm me at limabeing#2123

Its only their jealousy coming out wishing they were free like you. Great heartfelt work every time keep them coming!

OK, here we go....being neither defensive, nor a dick, as you so eloquently expressed! lol

I've been receiving these attacks that I would be soon greedy and wealthy, ha!

I was not attacking you, in the slightest - I was sending you good vibes - You interpreted it as you did.

You conflate wealth with greed - which it is not. ( your definition doesn't make it true). I have been wealthy a few times during my life, but not greedy...

I said in my comment to you - as someone who is successful in business, the 'by product' is money ( notice I said 'by product', not the business) My motivation is never money centered.
As a wealthy - -successful - business person, it is up to you/that person to to do whatever you want with that wealth generated.

I offered up no attack, just pointed out the logic.
Generating wealth from your labors is an honorable thing to do.

I didn't mean to impose white guilt....

Well, you did actually, by bringing it up in the first place. That was a subject not even touched upon in the initial article. You brought it up.
You imposed it into the conversation.
You are far too good a writer to put things down unintentionally, I believe..

You see there are not many jobs around here and my age does not even qualify for shit jobs but I still need to bring food to the table right

I offered you employment - a paying job..With your own house, free internet and lots of dollars.
An yes I retracted it after the response I got back. Employer privilege, I suppose you would call it. Something else to be angry about.
It was a genuine offer - as a favor - to a fellow traveler - in hard times.

I certainly do not have a badge of privileges that allow me to teach English or get some high wage somewhere cheaper in this world.

...a job was offered, that also gave you the reason for traveling -
I was trying help you out of your predicament of dire poverty, and allow you travel at the same time.
(and probably give you valuable input on your emerging travel website. i.e. lots of help.)

No one has any badges -except in the delusional social justice warrior reality, where everyone has a label.
(I have cleaned up puke in nightclubs- night after night, to make some money to eat- I did what I had to do- then opportunities present themselves.)
There is no shame is cleaning puke up to eat for the day..(yuk - not cleaning the actual puke to eat barf. lol)

As a side note - formed around my my own travel experiences over the years....

My own personal philosophy is that good fortune (the universe) knocks on everyone's door. Some people never hear it... Some do.
It's up to each individual (if they hear the knock) to open it and accept the universe in and see what it offers you. Or not of course. Your choice.
I also think the universe stops knocking - eventually - if you never answer the door.
It goes and knocks elsewhere.
Just a personal philosophy.

I'm sorry if you still don't find that and I'm sure if you travel more you would discover it too.

As you said this post was for me, that makes no sense.
As you know I have traveled for well over 15 years around the world, working everywhere I went - after setting off on my own, with only $600 in my pocket - and making my own way as I went along...no privileges, no familial support.

So there you go -there are no attacks on you, and there were no attacks on you, just interpretation. There is no negativity from here hun.

The best of luck with your future endevours.

Cheers.

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Hahahaha, this is the funniest response to a post I've ever read lucylin.
I think my favorite quote from you is "I was not attacking you, in the slightest - I was sending you good vibes"

Is that Psychopathic language for "I'm going to puke on your face and then take a huge dump on your chest"

You don't even know diabolik@ in person, I do. You offered her a job, so what. Your made this entire post about you and its not about you or rather people like you.

By your response you show some of your master race superiority complex that you have. Its a joke that you project yourself as some generous Super Hero who came down from heaven to rescue some poor minority girl out of dire straits. Get Real.

She did not accept your hand out, big blow to your ego I see. Although you will see your self or try to project yourself as super kind generous guy for making this offer instead you now make your self look like a dick by throwing it in the persons face.

The fact of the matter is, she doesn't need your help. Miss diabolik@ is a survivor, self made woman who has traveled the world and managed on her own.

It doesn't mean it's not nice to receive the kindness of strangers which she has talked about in other post. But what is kindness? Kindness is when you do for someone with no agenda and no expected in return.

From what I read from you, you had some expectation and you didn't get what you wanted so now let me try to destroy this person their reputation and look like a hero.

You act like you are this great pearl that appeared to diabolik@ and now the treasure is gone and the opportunity lost.

For sure the Universe will knock again and again, and whatever door diabolik@ chooses to enter is hers and hers alone.

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I think my favorite quote from you is "I was not attacking you, in the slightest - I was sending you good vibes"

I'm glad you liked the quote. - but I feel a hint of sarcasm. (always a bad sign)

Is that Psychopathic language for "I'm going to puke on your face and then take a huge dump on your chest"

I see only one person with psychopathic tendencies around here, friend, if that's your interpretation. (or is this romantic overtones, you little flirt?)

No I don't know her in person, I was responding to her post with a comment.

You offered her a job, so what.

I think offering a job to someone who appears to be in quite a desperate frame of mind(at the time)- in which lack of finances seemed to be a fairly major reason for the said frame of mind (from her own posts at the time).

That is a good thing to do, not a bad one?
You think offering help to someone in need, is a bad thing? How so?

Your made this entire post about you and its not about you or rather people like you.
@diabolika ...Anyway, my latest post is for you...

Well, she did say she wrote the post for me.

That kinda blows a hole in your entire premise, my friend, doesn't it? oops.

Its a joke that you project yourself as some generous Super Hero

I don't, you are doing that all by yourself. It's your issue, not mine.

This says much more about you and your ability/inability, to interpret.

She did not accept your hand out, big blow to your ego I see. Although you will see your self or try to project yourself as super kind generous guy for making this offer instead you now make your self look like a dick by throwing it in the persons face.

My retraction is a business decision.
It's my choice. Adults make choices.
It's not an ego issue, no matter how much you want to attempt to make it into something other than that.
(to satisfy your white knighting desires a little, perhaps?..mmm). A working relationship issue. And that's my business.
As an employer, these are the kind of decisions you have to make - one of things I was pointing out relevant in the original comment, actually.

So thanks for highlighting it.

My comments were not about kindness - or meanness,-it was an observation from reading her posts everyday on steemit (nearly).

She appeared to be having inner conflicts that are not conducive to getting (where I perceive, ) she says she is going/wants to go. (vis a vis her business ambitions).

My comments were trying to point out to her, that the inner conflicts she appears to have, do not necessarily have to be that way.
Reconciling these conflicts, can help in going in the right direction much easier, with less mental 'fog'.

From what I read from you, you had some expectation and you didn't get what you wanted

Are we still talking about me here, or you?

so now let me try to destroy this person their reputation and look like a hero.

You really need to learn to read then, if that's the interpretation you glean from it. Seriously.
How old are you?

Are you an SJW, or something silly? Do you still think moral relativism is real?
Are you an angry socialist, my friend?

The desire to white knight is strong in this one ....lol.

It seems to me you have a talent(disability) to interpret it as you feel, to fulfill your own white knighting agenda. (just my take on it.)

A pearl that appeared?

Is that how you see someone who just offers help?
I just see it as an offer to help someone. Your interpretations are very colorful... I like that.

I wishher all the best for the future, and wish nothing but good things for her.
I see no problem with that.

Positive vibes, friend.


Well done you!

I hope I served as a useful target, and to show everyone just how truly virtuous, you really are.

Good luck my friend, @aleluzdosol77, and remember - no means no!

and @diabolika - I'm glad your friend commented. It cheered me up so much writing that !

Your friends are fun !

Peace x

I seem to missed some drama here

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funny how things spiral, from a well intended comment...