About destiny. Is our fate sealed?
Are we born or become equal?
Are we free?
Do we have our own will or are we manipulated dolls? And if so, then who is the puppeteer?
All of these concrete questions give rise to more abstract answers. One of them is my favorite and the audience eager to find out about the future.
This response is described as a supernatural force that irrevocably determines the course of events. In fact, the public is known as fate or destiny.
Why do people think in destiny?
In the first place, man is a tall seeker of answers. At the same time we are also limited. Restrict yourself to not knowing all the mysteries of this universe, to worry about unanswered questions.
And yet when the answers do not contrive to appear, something appears: the consciousness that sends any conceptual question to a superior force appears. The idea of divinity and the term of destiny appears.
We like to think someone up there plays us on our fingers.
Usually people use the notion of destiny to deny certain problems caused. It is an involuntary form of not taking on our responsibilities and putting them in someone's crap.
Destiny is our carriage of trouble. As long as we do not hurt anyone through the process of awarding our mistakes and escape with an excuse, it's good, we are happy. Destiny can not be defended and can not be contradicted precisely because it is an abstract notion, and often those who invoke it attribute it to the form of axiom (it becomes a sentence taken as such, not to be defined or challenged)
Are we some dolls with a predestined fate?
Here opinions are shared. Some are those who like to believe in the abstract, in supernatural forces, and on the other are those who can only believe in concrete and palpable things.
I believe the truth is somewhere in the middle.
First of all, they do not take the notion of destiny. I write my own fate through my own actions, and I am also responsible for the problems or successes that have been caused.
Second, if we were to take it in a religious sense, then there is a contradiction between our fate and our free choice between good and evil.
Do not blame your past for what you are today, blame your present for what you will be in the future.
I see life as a test. We could all have been beautiful in heaven directly, but then there would have been a problem: if we are not the same then who is the better?
Well, think that God has given you this chance to show you everything you can. You have a limited time in which you can change the world. The first step is to change yourself, to make the best of yours.
You also have a particularly powerful tool. It's called motivation and it's all you need to achieve your goals.
The motivation can be found everywhere around you. It is composed of love, pleasure, happiness, family, career, etc.
All those things for which we run in desperation are the prize. We are motivated to win because that will simplify our life on Earth, but the true prize is the journey and the way to these things.
Do not forget, enjoy the journey, learn from mistakes and aim higher. It's all you have to do.
The competition we all have is with us not with the others. You do not have to make others inferior to you because it will not make you look superior.
Self-fulfill and leave the destiny for those who are apologized to justify their failure. You do not need excuses, you do not need destiny and you do not need prizes. The reward will come by itself with your transformation into a better person.
In the end, is our fate sealed? Yes, we carry each seal of our own deeds.